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Author:  ziki [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Opinions on greeting for first Date?
So you get a number, and go for a first date with a girl. As soon as you make contact with her, on the meeting location how do you proceed. So options are kiss on the cheek, handshake, or a simple nod and hi. What would you recommend and why?

Personally i think, Kiss on the cheek could be considered friendly, as that's what friends usually do and it could be associated with a friendly non-erotic vibe. A handshake seems official and business like, and could only resemble how you greet your male friends, and finally the option for a simple hi/hello and then take it from there which seems more cool and natural, but probably less risky, less reward as well?

I dont want to stress on this, nor does it bother me significantly, just came to mind as a topic and thought i could have a fun n easy conversation about it with you guys. What do you think :)
Author:  GamesSN [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 10:24 pm ]
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I just shake her hand and give a kiss on the cheek.
Author:  Xoved [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 11:16 pm ]
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Depends on the country you're living in to be honest.

In my country, I just got for a kiss and a two second hug. It works great for me.

Don't over-think such stuff, there's more things to worry about other than a greeting.
Author:  detox75 [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 2:29 am ]
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Actually the first 10 seconds of the interaction are the most significant. I have a checklist of things I try to accomplish in the first 10 seconds and have internalized them to make a great impression. Don't offer more affection then you are likely to receive
Author:  ziki [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 8:48 am ]
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Actually the first 10 seconds of the interaction are the most significant. I have a checklist of things I try to accomplish in the first 10 seconds and have internalized them to make a great impression. Don't offer more affection then you are likely to receive
Could you share this checklist?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 12:18 pm ]
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I normally try the quick hug, myself.
Author:  detox75 [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 6:19 pm ]
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i would be specific but basically you want to accomplish the following:

1. Dominant eye contact
2. Lead the interaction
3. control the environment
Author:  LordBiron [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 7:22 pm ]
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Personally I am direct, when I see a broad I want I tell her she is fucking sexy and if I number close (been in the game 3 months and my success rate so far is about 65%) I make it obvious that I want some type of sexual contact. It all depends on what kind of girl you want, if you want to fuck be direct, if you want to marry her be romantic
Author:  ziki [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 8:55 pm ]
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Quote:
i would be specific but basically you want to accomplish the following:

1. Dominant eye contact
2. Lead the interaction
3. control the environment
I like your style. Any tips on accomplishing 2 and 3?
Quote:
Personally I am direct, when I see a broad I want I tell her she is fucking sexy and if I number close (been in the game 3 months and my success rate so far is about 65%) I make it obvious that I want some type of sexual contact. It all depends on what kind of girl you want, if you want to fuck be direct, if you want to marry her be romantic
I wonder How can you be romantic and not appear gay these days? I mean like pull chairs for her to sit, and other weird cliches dudes pull to set themselves up as the romatic type!
Author:  detox75 [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 11:27 pm ]
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I wouldn't focus on anything "romantic" that for after you f-close, otherwise it just comes off as try hard.

1. (Dominant eye contact)is actually more important and effective then 2 and 3 but just to give you some best practices to work with: Ill lead the interaction by placing my hand on their shoulder or lower back and direct them where to sit. I also pattern interrupt any perfunctory greeting they attempt to give me.

I will set the environment by telling them something I want them to wear and optimize our meet up location to eliminate distractions(Music, banal chatter, visual distractions) and external threats(AMOGS).
Author:  In$tinct [ Wed Oct 09, 2013 1:49 pm ]
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Here we go again, my bullshit-o-meter went off for the 500th time at least.

Don't confuse a "nice guy" to a gentleman. And don't confuse cheesy/needy with romantic.

Don Juan was romantic. Casanova was romantic. And they consistently banged women because they expressed their sexuality confidently, in a charming way.
Author:  detox75 [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 8:23 pm ]
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I always laugh at this silly woman's magazine type of advice. If you end up trying the romantic angle without establishing solid attraction first let us know how that works out for you
Author:  In$tinct [ Fri Oct 11, 2013 12:34 pm ]
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When did I say to leave out the attraction part? I just said that being romantic by itself is not a mistake, there's just a time and a place for that.
Author:  detox75 [ Sun Oct 13, 2013 5:26 pm ]
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unhelpful advice for new guys, he doesn't need to focus one iota on "being romantic" or using "Don Jaun" as a model of success, he needs some fundamental game.
Author:  Mattr1984 [ Mon Oct 14, 2013 6:38 am ]
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To OP, the answer isn't a simple this or that. It all depends on the initial interaction you had. If you made out and got hot, go straight for the kiss when you meet her if you want.

If you just organised a date, kiss on the cheek, hold a hug, lean back and give her a compliment.

Just make sure you are always direct and honest about your intentions. Make sure she knows you want her. If she gets offended or says she's not into you, bail.
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