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| Author: | jinhyung99 [ Fri Sep 27, 2013 12:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need some advice |
I have been talking to this one lady lately at work for about two weeks now and it seems that she digs me. I took her on two dates, one to a restaurant and another to a mini golf/amusement park. After each date I tell her that I had amazing time and she says the same to me. We text each other everyday and see each other in school everyday and vibe really well. I found out today that she has been texting some other guy on the low back at home where she was from. I don't pay much attention to this because we are after all just dating. Today in a meeting the topic of her and me came out and everyone was calling her out and putting her on blast to see if she did really like me. She really blushed and laughed "Haha no we are friends". I wasn't present in the room at the time but one of my co workers told me. I was kind of let down, but he assured me the only reason why she would say no was because she was in a room with people she didn't really know getting called out. He also said that the fact she blushed proved that she was into me. I don't know how to approach this situation. Should I tell her I like her, face rejection and make it awkward or leave her alone because she thinks were just "friends". I don't know if friends go to 1 on 1 dates and hang out at each others houses. P.S She has also came over to watch a movie alone at my house alone at night spontaneously . |
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| Author: | Mr. Marville [ Fri Sep 27, 2013 1:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need some advice |
You, sir, are a very lucky man. Why? Because I just happened to spend 2 minutes of my infinitely valuable time to read this post and - given my infinite generosity - decided to post a comment. 1. You refer to the specimen as 'lady'. This reminds me of a time when people were upright, well-mannered, and when all relationships within the Western civilization were not yet encapsulated within ego-boosting, functional-friending, max-profit-gain schemes of reasoning and attraction . . . During the times when men still refered to females as "ladies" rather than "chicks" relationships were definitely more sturdy, rewarding and long-lasting. Does such a "respectful" mentality work out today? Na-ah, given the schemes mentioned that have taken hold. 2. What would you have done had this "said friend" not conveyed described scenario (the blushing and calling out) to you? The best idea is to pretend it did not happen and act from there. Did you consider he might have made it up to throw you off your bearings? 3. If she had openly admitted she liked you, she would have demonstrated vulnerability. Due to the sick nature of contemporary relationships (see 1.), this will never happen, even if she in fact does like you. 4. Make sure she comes to watch the video again, then go all-out kino. Which means to find subtle way to touch her. Basically go sit next to her and touch her wrist subtly with yours, wait a few secs and if there is no withdrawal begin to caress the hand subtly and move from there. Vital key element in kino is to go slow and saviour every bit of progress she allows you to make on her body. With a bit of luck you can kiss her in 15 min of consistent kino or even sooner. |
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| Author: | jinhyung99 [ Fri Sep 27, 2013 1:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need some advice |
Thank you for the response. Never posted on here but glad I got some valuable feedback. Just need guidance from the pua squad. What video ? One of ours dates I went pretty far with kino but as I got close it was a little hesitant. Seems like I am doing most of the tension creating and she gives none but what do I know |
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