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| Author: | mkivtt [ Thu Sep 26, 2013 8:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | To Call or Not to Call |
Went out with HB9 last Thu. It went very well: flirting, teasing, kino, deep convo. She was totally into it. Easy kiss on the lips at the end (looking for LTR, not going to push my luck). Texted her when I got home to make fun of the power outage that happened during our date, said we had a good time, and hope she got home safely. She responded w. thanks for the fun evening. Since the date went so well, I didn't want wait 2-3 days to call again (strike while the iron is hot). Plus it was Thu so I wanted to call Fri just in case she had time on the weekend. She answered, said she wanted to meet again, and would send me her schedule. Bad, since it puts me "waiting mode," instead of "dominant." But she was driving so it sounded plausible and I figured I can always call later. I didn't hear from her Sat, Sun or Mon. So I texted Tue morning that I'd call that night. Called, no answer. Called again Wed evening, no answer again, left a VM. She texted me toward midnight saying she would've called back, but she figured it was too late at night by then, and said she was at a fashion event with a girlfriend, responded to a joke from my VM, and said she looked forward to talking to me soon. So, I text this morning with a flirty joke about the event she was at last night, and asked what time is good to call her. No response, and it's almost 4PM now. I have been having some issues w friends not receiving my texts lately, so I am not 100% sure if she got it or not. So my question: do I call again tonight, even though she didn't respond? This is confusing. Usually it's clear if you should call or not, but I'm getting mixed messages. The date was 10/10, I *know* she had an awesome time, but now I'm having the hardest time getting a hold of her again. Pros: she texted she wanted to chat, sent quite a detailed and happy msg. So if she had zero interest she wouldn't have bothered. Plus, it's Thu again today, and I need to call ASAP to set up something for this weekend. Wait too long = she forgets about the good time. Cons: I'll be calling 3 nights in a row, which makes me look like a loser. I will have texted her twice and called twice with nothing to show for it except 1 (long) text in return. Thoughts? Thanks! |
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| Author: | scanner4 [ Fri Sep 27, 2013 8:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: To Call or Not to Call |
Yeah it might look a bit needy if you call again after the non answers. But don't give up man there could still be something there. I'd spend a couple nights chasing other options so you don't get oneitis. Your confidence will shine next time you see her if you're working other options. If it were me... she hasn't picked up the phone a few nights in a row, I'd freeze her out for a couple of days. Unless she contacts you that is. If you are out sarging you wont see the days pass. |
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| Author: | Heartnet [ Fri Sep 27, 2013 11:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: To Call or Not to Call |
maybe she is fucking another better guy |
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