Hey man, thanks.

So that would be your way of calling her out on the fake boyfriend....

Would you wait for a reply?

That's my way of calling HER out, fuck the boyfriend - real or imagined.

Yes wait, she has only two options here, A. Qualify herself to you; e.g. "I am so mature, I can handle you, can you handle me?" B. Ignore you forever. Either way you win. If she chooses 'A' You get to take it from there and fuck said young lady.

If she chooses 'B' you get to dive right back in and pick out a better one.

P.S. You are free to dive while waiting.

One more thing, I'm expecting her not to reply now. Do I leave it a few days and send it anyway, or leave it?

Talking to a 3 set (19 yr olds). I'm 27, the 2 guys that were with me are in their 30s.

I chose the hottest girl (hb 8/9), kino, got her number. (I need to work on this k close thing!!!) By the way one of the guys with me got one of their numbers right as we left, which I didn't think was the plan. This may have worked against me... (she ignored him, and blocked him from whats ap)

We text back and forth the next couple days as it took sometimes hours for each other to reply. I try to organise for this week, but she asks when am I free next week, followed by:

"And random question, but how old are you? :p x"

We then send a few texts back and forth trying to guess each others age. Please don't ask why this wasn't established when we met - it just wasn't.

So when she finds out there's almost an 8 year gap she responds to my immediate change of subject with this:

"haha, yeah I guess, and yeah you were right :p. not much preparing for uni. It's gonna be a stressful year. My bf keeps moaning I have no time for him :/ x"

So I think this boyfriend is a make believe person that protects her from older boys . I responded by not addressing the moaning bf issue and again changed the subject, also asking her when her first day of uni is.

NO REPLY. It's been a day

Boys, what the fuck do I do???

cheers

Seriously dude. What the fuck are you doing hanging around 19 year olds and asking them out? Can't you get someone nearer your own age? You're nearly 30 man! She is still a teenager. She thinks you're too old for her and is dicking you around and you deserve it. Nothing turns teenage girls off than older guys sniffing around them. Have some dignity.

you learned something here, next time don't qualify yourself when you have very limited rapport

Hi,

I'm not following. I do need to improve so an explanation would be helpful

how old are you?
what do you do for a living?
are you good at XYZ?
do you like XYZ?

^ the above are qualifications, people try to find congruence with what your ''identity'' is from a superficial standpoint, if they find out a quality about you they don't like at an early point in your rapport, they can dismiss you on superficial grounds, i.e. ohhh he's too old/young for me, or he like XYZ rock band, I don't like rock there fore I can't associate with XYZ person, he is XYZ zodiac sign we are no good for each other

how ever when someone likes you cause they just feel good emotionally around you, the longer and more investment they have in those emotions and connection, the less this is important, this is creating the rapport