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Author:  turandobear [ Sat Sep 07, 2013 11:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Friends or More?
Hey guys I'm new here so this is my first post :)

I have some questions about a girl I'm busy vibing with, she has me a little confused. We work together and she is the new girl known her about 4days at work. We get along really well talk a lot at work. So yesterday I told her let's do something so I can get to know her better.
, she agreed and I took her to my spot. It's a spot where you can view the whole city. We were chatting and I can't seem to place where her mind is, she said she's had bad experiences with dating and work as in you lose your job and you boyfriend she also said she hates it when she's nice to guys and they take it the wrong was by thinking she likes them.. Then she what's to know about my ex. After we were done chilling we both went home and she started texting me staying thank you was nice. I told her next time we going out to eat and she didn't such it down she replied with make a deal. We spoke some more and I kept quiet cause I had company. Then she started chatting to me about random shit on YouTube.
There has been a slight but of kino from her side we haven't hugged but she smacks my assignment some times and touches my back.

Basically what I wanna know is, does she just enjoy the company I proved her or is there something more.

Thanks
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Sun Sep 08, 2013 6:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friends or More?
Quote:
Hey guys I'm new here so this is my first post :)

I have some questions about a girl I'm busy vibing with, she has me a little confused. We work together and she is the new girl known her about 4days at work. We get along really well talk a lot at work. So yesterday I told her let's do something so I can get to know her better.
, she agreed and I took her to my spot. It's a spot where you can view the whole city. We were chatting and I can't seem to place where her mind is, she said she's had bad experiences with dating and work as in you lose your job and you boyfriend she also said she hates it when she's nice to guys and they take it the wrong was by thinking she likes them.. Then she what's to know about my ex. After we were done chilling we both went home and she started texting me staying thank you was nice. I told her next time we going out to eat and she didn't such it down she replied with make a deal. We spoke some more and I kept quiet cause I had company. Then she started chatting to me about random shit on YouTube.
There has been a slight but of kino from her side we haven't hugged but she smacks my assignment some times and touches my back.

Basically what I wanna know is, does she just enjoy the company I proved her or is there something more.

Thanks
Yes. She's attracted to you, but nothing will happen unless you make it happen, make a move, or lose.
Author:  coolguy2013 [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 8:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friends or More?
I think the fact that you two work together makes it even more tricky. I would respond back with some more kino and see what type of feedback you get from her. She might be interested in you, and doing this will at least show her that you are interested as well. At the slightest hint of negative feedback, I would try to detect if it is really her resisting or if she is just using a defense mechanism to make her not seem too much like an easy slut. If she is putting up a barrier to protect herself, I would say something like, "Okay, no problem. However you are comfortable, baby." This would show her that you are not a desperate horn dog, yet you are placing the ball in her court if she does want to go all the way. If all else fails, do not become cold or harsh with her since you guys work together and office drama could really get ugly! Good luck, m8...
Author:  turandobear [ Mon Sep 16, 2013 1:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friends or More?
thanks for your replies. we have both admitted to being attracted to one another but things still seem very rock, and I fear im heading into friendzone or have already hit it.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Sep 16, 2013 2:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friends or More?
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I fear im heading into friendzone or have already hit it.
Because?
Author:  turandobear [ Wed Sep 18, 2013 10:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friends or More?
because my mind likes to play trick on me. took her out on Monday to a movie "now you see me" I thought it was shit but no matter. I read a post on movie dates and it talked about building sexual tension in the movie. we got the couple seats where there is no arm rest in the middle. we cuddled in the movie at the the end the post said kiss her during the credit roll, , was to scared so I left it. When we walked out she grabbed my hand and I knew if I didn't kiss this girl tonight I would fuck it up. so I told her lets go somewhere, the area was new to me so I told her take me somewhere nice around here where we can chill in private. she took me to some park and we chilled in the car, there was a silence and I told her come her I wanna kiss you. she said oh really. she came to my side and I kissed her, we fooled around. After she said this was a bad idea now she's gonna wanna do this at work. we then made out again and went home. Thanks for the advice helped a lot. :D
Author:  endtimesnear [ Tue Oct 01, 2013 3:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friends or More?
So any advice on what turandobear should do now?! I'm in the very same boat. Should there be push and pull in the days following the makout sessions? What should be expected?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Oct 01, 2013 3:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friends or More?
Both of you should read this:

majik-s-guide-to-kino-escalation-vt163160.html
Author:  Xoved [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 10:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friends or More?
Oh god...you didn't tell her that. I'll pretend as I never heard that.

Ok you got the kiss, but never tell her that you're going to kiss her again in your life. Just do it.
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