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| Author: | Tagman [ Mon Sep 02, 2013 11:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help! what do I do next!!? Girl I met whilst acting. |
Hello there people! Okay so I'm really stuck for what to do next. Before I begin It may help to know that I'm an actor 20 years old and just finished Drama school. I met this girl in a play I was doing a week ago (HB 8-9, lets call her actress 1). I had a girlfriend at the time aged 26 (don't ask me how LOL) but we broke up in the last week due to the fact the she wanted to get married and of course I did not. The whole process from rehearsal to closing night took about 4 week during which time Actress 1 was sending me IOI's all over the place; touching my arm, reinitiating conversations, laughing at my jokes and generally being playful and flirty. CLOSING NIGHT PARTY (a Saturday): She gets chatting to this other guy and they spend the rest of the night being close ect ect but nothing other than that. Towards the end of the night everyone was very very out of it (me included). In a crazed moment stupidity fear of rejection and general AFC moment I fucking facebooked her this at 4:25 AM "We should get dinner some time.x" Whilst I WAS THERE! That moment pains my every being. Anyway, she came up to me and was like "Yeah, i'll have dinner with you, why not?" and what was that. On my way home I said this via text "go to bed.x" which sparked a short text conversation the next day about our hangovers ect ect ect and the fact that I had to go and see a one woman play about the holocaust with my family. On monday she started another text conversation asking this (I know I have made some massive mistakes here I'm sure please help me to point them out!) Her: How was the play yesterday!? Did you die?! Haha x Me: Well, It sounded quite promising when i read the flyer..then this woman came on stage. she was awful. her voice was like GBH to the ears. She did not stop yapping. I waited in hope of another character entering. No one came. It was a one woman show. 1H 30Min of hell. finally it ended on a joyful note when she shot herself in the head. Hurrah! Despite the ending, I wouldnt recommend it. What sort of trouble are you causing?x Her: HA!!! Sounds thoroughly entertaining if you ask me. Well, I have officially been de-Lucy'd by painting my nails and dying hair. No trouble causing for me until Wednesday when im reunited with a couple of mates from school mwhahaha Me: Sweet. I'm just chilling with a good mate of mine knocking bad %2.3 beer like Boss's. It's the Bomb. Possibilities of a Carnival after party are arising so were going to head down to that.x TUESDAY: NOTHING WEDNESDAY:NOTHING: THURSDAY: Me: I just saw an army of Oompa Loomas crossing the street. WTF!?! That is all.x Her: SAY WHAAAAAAT?! You alright!x Her: p.s have you been asked to read for A Dolls House?x Me: I'm good thanks. Caused any trouble yet? Nope *Kisses teeth* All the guys are 30's though I suppose. Her: Plenty of trouble. Just got back from 2 days solid drinking with my mates. I feel hideous. Ah I see. I dont know it! the director has asked me to read for Nora Helmer?! Is she interesting?! What have you been up to?xx Me: Good work. I've done the same. Catching up with mates takes its toll! The wire and tea is my cure for this evening. Nora is a G. Playful, childlike and ballsy. Good casting.xx Her: I know right. very painful now haha! Im watching the great british bake off!! Yum. Ah sounds good!!Xx Me: I definitely win best hangover cure. Great British bake off!!! pfft.xx her: GBBO IS THE ONE. all you blud.x Me: Omg. White people trying to talk street. Cringe. her: you mean gangster... Me: I dont think we can be friends anymore. her: Whyyyyy? Me: Um your constant need to be street. Duh!! Her. I dont need to be street... I am street.x Me: *Look of hopeless pity*x Her. Me: you can redeem yourself if your lucky.xx Her: Ok What have i got to do?! Me: Well drinks with me is a start and we'll see after that. Hows sunday? Her: Ha sunday is a defo no cos ive got a mad one saturday...shoreditch followed by Soho! but maybe next week? Me: I'm pretty busy next week. Monday is a possibility though. FRIDAY: NOTHING SATURDAY: NOTHING SUNDAY: Me: hows the recovery treating you?x Her: Dying slowly. eurgh.x Me: I'm definitley on track for feeling like that tomorrow. On a mad one!! Brap Brap!!x MONDAY: I've heard nothing back. Do I ask again!? WHAT DO I DO!?!? The whole cast is meeting up on wednesday to go and see a play together so we may talk then but is she still on it!? I would really appreciate some feedback guys! All the best, Tagman |
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| Author: | Mig [ Mon Sep 02, 2013 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help! what do I do next!!? Girl I met whilst acting. |
I think the FIRST thing you should do...is join online dating and message 20 girls, text any cute single girls you know, and then go out tonight and hit on some girls in town (even just say hi). That will cause you to worry a whole lot less about this chick. As soon as you do that...and start acting like she's just one of your options...and not the only option...you'll attract her without any problem. She WAS interested in you...so you just need to get that back. Don't text her today, and not tomorrow either. Wait a few days and have: A) Something cool you might do with or without her and suggest she "come along" (DO NOT SAY "do you want to go to ____?" say, "I'm going [go-carting] tomorrow, you should come") OR B) Something funny/random to say that is easy for her to respond to (ex. "Did you know a sperm whale is as large as a bus! Discovery Channel during working hours...you're welcome"). Good luck...You'll do swimmingly. |
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| Author: | Tagman [ Tue Sep 03, 2013 12:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help! what do I do next!!? Girl I met whilst acting. |
Quote: I think the FIRST thing you should do...is join online dating and message 20 girls, text any cute single girls you know, and then go out tonight and hit on some girls in town (even just say hi). That will cause you to worry a whole lot less about this chick. As soon as you do that...and start acting like she's just one of your options...and not the only option...you'll attract her without any problem. She WAS interested in you...so you just need to get that back.
Don't text her today, and not tomorrow either. Wait a few days and have: A) Something cool you might do with or without her and suggest she "come along" (DO NOT SAY "do you want to go to ____?" say, "I'm going [go-carting] tomorrow, you should come") OR B) Something funny/random to say that is easy for her to respond to (ex. "Did you know a sperm whale is as large as a bus! Discovery Channel during working hours...you're welcome"). Good luck...You'll do swimmingly. Thank you! You are totally right. It's nice to have a bit of encouragement and advice. Does a Friends 21st b-day party sound too personal? you know, like she was my "date" ect. It's just because its my best friends this weekend? thanks again bro. |
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| Author: | Mig [ Tue Sep 03, 2013 2:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help! what do I do next!!? Girl I met whilst acting. |
Do you share mutual friends at the party? Otherwise...it might be pretty awkward for her as a first date. Either way...if she's going already, then no need to make it a "date." I would plan something a little less intimidating for her because otherwise she'll just end up flaking out. Keep it simple, and make it fun (when in doubt...make her feel like a kid again...for a bit...and then remind her she's a woman). |
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