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| Author: | Eerie [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 3:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help Request: Texting the day after our date. |
Went on a date with a girl I met on OKC. We hit it off online and we hit it off in person. Everything went great. We made out a lot. Loads of kino. Smooth and easy conversation. I feel great about it. Today, I made the noob mistake of texting her that I had a great time with her last night. It's been an hour and a half and I've got no response. I know I've gone AFC over this because I actually really like this girl. I couldn't resist. I know this happens. What is my move here? Should I text her again? She usually gets back to me fairly quickly. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 4:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help Request: Texting the day after our date. |
Don't follow up... that's for sure. Wait for a reply. If you don't get one, you can follow in a couple days. My 2 cents. |
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| Author: | Eerie [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 9:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help Request: Texting the day after our date. |
I overreacted. She texted me back shortly after I posted this and we talked a bit. She was a little busy. She asked to see me again. I said we should hang out this weekend and she replied "does that mean I don't get you tomorrow?" That is encouraging. Unfortunately I feel a little oneitis coming on. |
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| Author: | Mattr1984 [ Thu Aug 15, 2013 5:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help Request: Texting the day after our date. |
As you said, you over reacted. You should never care if a girl replies or not. Call/text ONCE then leave it. If they answer/reply that's good, if they don't forget them. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Thu Aug 15, 2013 6:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help Request: Texting the day after our date. |
Yeh, I can relate, your mind starts to be all negative and start to think worst case scenario. "Omg she usually replies by now" Some girls do it on purpose as a test, because at this point is where chodes reveal that they are chodes. Just text when you feel like it, it is more genuine, you did nothing wrong, ignore all the guru's that say otherwise. Just don't be obvious chode as in text her 10 times in a row "omg, you haven't replied! You bitch!" When you send a text, just forget about it. It makes it so much easier, delete the Convo in your phone need be to make it easier. Just be positive and be like "of course she will get back to me" and they always do with this positive attitude. I had a girl reply to me once "I just ben hit by a car, can't make tonight" So I just assumed it was a flake, 4 months later she texts me that she is finally out of hospital and a date with a hot girl....IN CRUTCHES! At the time I wanted to text "worst excuse ever! Fuck off" glad I didn't. Stay positive my man. |
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