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Author:  WalkingAndTalking [ Thu Aug 08, 2013 6:45 pm ]
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Had an awesome approach, got the number and also had a successful txt game till last week (been texting her for four weeks).

She is always quick to reply to my message. Once I made a compliment on her eyes and, 2 days later she sent this text:

"Hi, don't you have any other opinion on me? Which actress do i look like?"

My response:

" My opinion is positive! You look like yourself, unique and special."

But after a few weeks I became needy and started asking her that "we should meet", "Don't say no because that will make me depressed", "I really like you. You are Ideal in anyway." and she replied by saying " You sure you're okay?!"

So did she lost interest? A few notes about her:

- She is shy and tradition.
- I guess she gave me her number because she was shy and a bit insecure.
Author:  Skylar B [ Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:06 pm ]
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Had an awesome approach, got the number and also had a successful txt game till last week (been texting her for four weeks).

She is always quick to reply to my message. Once I made a compliment on her eyes and, 2 days later she sent this text:

"Hi, don't you have any other opinion on me? Which actress do i look like?"

My response:

" My opinion is positive! You look like yourself, unique and special."

But after a few weeks I became needy and started asking her that "we should meet", "Don't say no because that will make me depressed", "I really like you. You are Ideal in anyway." and she replied by saying " You sure you're okay?!"

So did she lost interest? A few notes about her:

- She is shy and tradition.
- I guess she gave me her number because she was shy and a bit insecure.
she lost interest because you became needy(basically bro :( ),its a turnoff towards a girls perspective.

you were also too forward with the meet-up,"we should meet" too forward!! do you want to meet up for a chat not to forward :wink: you should have also organised a meetup in the 2nd week of texting her.

since shes shy,give her breathing space.dont text her for a day then give her a nice happy "hey :D" the next day
you can still win her :)
Author:  WalkingAndTalking [ Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:32 pm ]
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since shes shy,give her breathing space.dont text her for a day then give her a nice happy "hey :D" the next day
you can still win her :)

Yeah, but I guess she needs more than a single day. I'm not going to text her for 10 days.


As for being forward, I told her "we need to meet, even for a few minutes cause I'm forgetting your face!"

Also, my latest messages were whiny BS. That's another turn-off I guess.
Author:  WalkingAndTalking [ Fri Aug 09, 2013 9:29 am ]
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Waiting for more opinions, thanks folks. :P
Author:  scanner4 [ Fri Aug 09, 2013 12:18 pm ]
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I'm not by any means an expert in PU. But what I do know is that if there is an example of how not to behave, you have achieved this.

I've seen a lot of nasty replies on this forum and that is not my intention here bro. I would say if you're about to send a text, sit back, breathe and think about it before hitting send.

If you're gonna turn this around, you need to be a new man. Try the famous "Hey I just saw a squirrel being chased by a cat and it reminded me of you.. what's going down"? (or some other completely random text in an attempt to start fresh).

You also need to DHV. Make her see how good life is. Leave it double as long to reply as it takes her and don't be apologetic for this - you're a busy and important man. And DO NOT be needy. Keep it playful, tease her. When it becomes flirty you can start thinking about day 2 options.

Maybe leave it a couple days though. "Where's he gone"???

keep us posted mate.
Author:  scanner4 [ Fri Aug 09, 2013 12:19 pm ]
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and stop complimenting her!
Author:  Skylar B [ Fri Aug 09, 2013 3:10 pm ]
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since shes shy,give her breathing space.dont text her for a day then give her a nice happy "hey :D" the next day
you can still win her :)

Yeah, but I guess she needs more than a single day. I'm not going to text her for 10 days.


As for being forward, I told her "we need to meet, even for a few minutes cause I'm forgetting your face!"

Also, my latest messages were whiny BS. That's another turn-off I guess.
no bro!! dont text her 10 days later,text her now or tomorrow :D she will become disinterested after 10 days

just like scanner4 :im not trying to be nasty or claiming to be an expert in PUA(im learning as i go along :D )

and i apologise for saying you were to forward,i didnt see the whole sentence :(

Dont make it "whiny" BS,make it funny happy positive BS :D Follow scanner4 by teasing her and keeping her reeled in :D demonstrating DHV by not replying instantly,wait a few minutes :D

tell us how it goes :)
Author:  WalkingAndTalking [ Fri Aug 09, 2013 3:28 pm ]
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No problem dude, actually It was helpful.

Btw, I've been the one who always initiate our conversations. So is it still recommended to contact sooner?
Author:  WalkingAndTalking [ Sat Aug 10, 2013 3:31 pm ]
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Okay, here is our final conversation.

ME: Hey, I'm going to give ourselves some space. We've been texting eachother everyday! I guess two weeks should be enough. [Sent yesterday@ 21:00 pm]
ME:Er, no. Two weeks is too long. Let it be one week. [Sent yesterday @ 21:15 pm]
ME:Er, no. A whole week is too long. Let it be a few days. [Sent today @ 06:00 pm]
ME:Er, no. A few days is too long. Let see what scooby doo has to say about this. [Sent today @ 06:05 pm]
ME:No. Let's see what teletubbies have to say about this. [Sent today @ 06:06 pm]
ME:What happened? Why are you not replying? Let me know what's in your mind, I will understand whatever your reasoning is.[Sent today @ 06:07 pm]

HER:Hi, how are you? Sorry, didn't want to annoy you.[Sent today @ 06:09 pm]

HER:I'm not seeking friendship. My life situation doesn't allow that.[Sent today @ 06:09 pm]

ME:Okay, I have better options, they existed before we began. :wink: [Sent today @ 06:25 pm]

HER:Okay enjoy.[Sent today @ 06:25 pm]


So transforming from a desperate AFC into an indifferent alpha-wannabe! :lol:

But I'm really affected by this shit.
Author:  nevver [ Sat Aug 10, 2013 7:22 pm ]
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man those 5 texts in a row are screaming needy.
Author:  Skylar B [ Sat Aug 10, 2013 8:36 pm ]
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Okay, here is our final conversation.

ME: Hey, I'm going to give ourselves some space. We've been texting eachother everyday! I guess two weeks should be enough. [Sent yesterday@ 21:00 pm]
ME:Er, no. Two weeks is too long. Let it be one week. [Sent yesterday @ 21:15 pm]
ME:Er, no. A whole week is too long. Let it be a few days. [Sent today @ 06:00 pm]
ME:Er, no. A few days is too long. Let see what scooby doo has to say about this. [Sent today @ 06:05 pm]
ME:No. Let's see what teletubbies have to say about this. [Sent today @ 06:06 pm]
ME:What happened? Why are you not replying? Let me know what's in your mind, I will understand whatever your reasoning is.[Sent today @ 06:07 pm]
Dont say your gonna give it a break "give ourselves some space" just dont text her as much,thats how you DHV. if she texts you : Hey babe. ignore it,then she should text back in while saying,"hey babe,you there??" then text her :)

dont contact her back so soon,like every 5 seconds,wait at a minute.say your at something but you can still talk :)

i have a feeling she iced you out when she said "HER:I'm not seeking friendship. My life situation doesn't allow that.[Sent today @ 06:09 pm]"

does she ever sent xx's or smileys when she is chatting to you ??
Author:  WalkingAndTalking [ Sat Aug 10, 2013 8:50 pm ]
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The final line put her in her place. I've been complimenting and boosting her confidence during the past weeks, and now she gave me that shitty answer.


Needless to say, I've been boring her with BS like:

"Hey, I really like you and I don't want to hear you saying "it's a one sided feeling :lol: " that would be depressing"

"Do you want to be my GF or not? I guess I'm a bit late and you are already taken! No problem, I'm so cool it will never be late!"

Though I fixed it by saying I was drunk when I sent you those garbage.

No, maybe once. But sometimes she reacted very excitedly by using lots of !!!!
Author:  Skylar B [ Sat Aug 10, 2013 9:21 pm ]
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The final line put her in her place. I've been complimenting and boosting her confidence during the past weeks, and now she gave me that shitty answer.


Needless to say, I've been boring her with BS like:

"Hey, I really like you and I don't want to hear you saying "it's a one sided feeling :lol: " that would be depressing"

"Do you want to be my GF or not? I guess I'm a bit late and you are already taken! No problem, I'm so cool it will never be late!"

Though I fixed it by saying I was drunk when I sent you those garbage.

No, maybe once. But sometimes she reacted very excitedly by using lots of !!!!
maybe just leave it and start on someone new???youve sorta lost her interest bro(sorry :( ) with the the two lines above.^
those lines you said are a sign of your interest in her and if she hasnt acted upon them by saying something like "yea,sure ill be your gf" or "hey i like you too" shes not interested.fuck her and move on :D
Author:  WalkingAndTalking [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 3:52 am ]
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Yeah, that's the right thing to do. Let's return to the "better options"! :lol:


Though I doubt anyone would say "sure I will be your GF"
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 7:17 am ]
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Mate. You are one needy, little fuck and you must learn from this experience. Those texts were off the scale in embarrassing (I get what you were trying to do) but it was too much. Don't worry. There's plenty more girls out there who'll slam their legs shut because of you. Just kiddin' dude. Just be yourself or maybe that's what is scaring them off? Either way don't be so needy the next time huh? Just let it flow and don't try and guess or double guess what she's thinking. You should've just said plainly and simply 'I'm going for a coffee tomorrow .. fancy joining me. We can watch people go by and take the crap outta them' or something like that. Good luck.
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