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| Author: | SuittedUp [ Fri Aug 02, 2013 3:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | The conversation seemed forced? |
Okay, so I had a date last night with this girl I met last Friday. During the date I thought I was coming off with as very Alpha, controlling the frame and not being too pushy. After that she wanted to go to the beach and this is where I kind of lost control. She was very disinterested about talking about herself so I guess I started talking about myself (mistake). I wanted to relate with her but she had no substance for me to build from so I guess I just tried to entertain ourselves. While we were talking in the car, she rejected all my kino (although i got her to give me a massage and laid on her lap while we were chilling on a bench). We then got into a conversation about our past relationships and our sex lives. She had 5 previous relationships only had sex with one person. I told her during this that I'm not looking for a relationship, because we're too young and shouldn't be serious. Ended my last LTR last month and she ended her STR 2 weeks ago so we were on the same page. She later told me that she wouldn't want a relationship with me after me saying all those things about being too young to be serious and all. After a while she told me that our conversations seems "Forced" and that it should be flowing, and I told her I agree (I rationalize this cuz she wasn't giving me much info to work with but i didn'tt tell her that). I switched to my chill mode and just let go of the frame, started speaking slow, pauses. She said this is how conversations should be and she was happy to see how I "loosened myself up". I told her that I was "screening her" which is why I asked all those questions (mistake?) She said "why are you screening me? I thought you didn't want a relationship". I told her idk the answer to that. We ended with me going back and her texting me this "It was kind fun tonight. Thanks for dinner. And we should definitely still do the movie thing one day. Goodnight." I replied the next day. Any tips on what I can improve on? and maybe some vids/good reads on how to run a good first date? LOL, it seems I dive into personal stuff too early? |
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| Author: | JimD [ Fri Aug 02, 2013 4:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The conversation seemed forced? |
Just from reading that, it screams "Just fuck the shit out of my brains already". Simple as that, she wants to get pounded by you bro and you're fucking it all up by not doing anything but fucking her. Simple, fuck her already. I mean you guys have already both said that you don't want long term relationships right? So what else is there to do? Talk about ham sandwiches? Lol |
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