There's always been much talking about girls in group and how to approach them.
The whole "mystery method" is built around groups.
THE ISSUE WITH GROUPS
But I feel that no matter what you're always going to have a harder time with a girl in a group.
And it's not just about the cockblocker thing.
Much more so if it's a mixed group, but even in a group of just chicks the girl is likely to feel some "peer pressure" to say yes, to exchange phone number and to possibly being questioned by the friends on how it went etc. etc.
And in case she's got a BF the group pressure is that much higher
THE BUSINESS CARD FIX
So I was thinking, rather than asking for phone number, facebook, dates and anything, couldn't it be a possible way to skirt the social pressure thing entirely by making your opening, state your interest, possibly talk/joke a bit and then... Handing out your business card to the girl you like and telling her "contact me"?
That way she doesn't have to stand the social pressure of "saying yes" to you and feeling looked down by her friends for SPAM phone numbers to complete strangers because she can do so alone at home, away from nosy bystanders
. And... You'll save time, money and energies in (not) making the first step
What do you think?