ahhhh, fuckin women and the shit they do (or don't do).
The IOI is pretty clear regarding contacting you while drinking wine by herself...but when she flaked on your plans, did she offer up alternative dates to hang out? Or did she just say "sorry!" and leave it at that?
Some hypotheticals:
- She saw your cape comment and thought you weren't taking this seriously, so she said "fuck it."
- She was hammered and fell asleep.
- She just wanted some attention (or to see if you'd be immediately receptive to her offer) and was satisfied.
But really, who the hell knows. It’ll be interesting to see what she says about that incident.
I generally judge people on ACTIONS. What they actually DO. In this case, she got your attention, gave an indirect invite (she didn’t actually invite), you obliged, she ignored. That tells me that it wasn’t that big of a priority anyways. You don’t just write that then peace out, especially when the person is saying they are coming over.
So, let it go until she chases back. You’ve done your part and it put you in a humiliating position that even a cocky and funny response couldn’t soften. Get the ball back in your court (by being chased), or get out of there.
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