I'm going over to a girls for a movie, she invited me, I did well opening and attracting. I met her through a work friend on one night, number closed and have been sparingly texting with a light hearted joking attitude, but I've slipped in a couple subtle sexual comments to ensure I'm not going to get friend zoned. She is an HB8 and confident, so I figure with this she would want me to be very confident and take control.

I'm wondering if this is one of those deals when I come in like push her against the wall and spark it off then back off and escalate throughout the night. Or should I just keep it light hearted and wait for a few IOI's before starting like an "evolution phase shift" or just escalate kino until the time is right?

Any feedback on how soon to initiate stuff, or what has worked for you guys?