So I just went on a 2nd date with a girl I met at a social event a few weeks back. After the event I just added her on fb and she messaged me that it was nice meeting me and that maybe we'd see each other "around".

First date was ok, tho no k-close as she seemed a bit shy and turned her cheek at the end of the date. She texted me 2 days after with a bit of an odd message which I didnt really answer (something about how she'd run out of tv shows to watch).

Second date, I took her to a dancing class, where we had fun despite a lot of clumsiness on the dance floor from both of us. A bit later we moved on for some drinks, where I tried to escalate with more kino. Conversation wasn't great, as she seemed to talk mostly about herself and not really come up with anything fun (i made her laugh many times tho and did a lot of teasing & push and pull). I left the kiss for the end, as I didnt really feel the vibes. No k close either tho, as she was very non-receptive saying she was tired and had to go home.

Now, my overall feeling about the whole thing wasn't a good one after the second date ending with no kiss, so I was kinda already putting it past me and moving all. The weird thing tho, is that, like 1h after our date, when she got home, she texted me saying something random again how her mother sent her a message about something and how she was really happy tho about to cry.

Wtf ? Is she crazy ? Shy ? Or just playing games ? Should I just ignore her for a few weeks and try something more direct then ?

Cheers

Obviously there was communication in between your "meetings".

Not enough sexual tension was built up in the first few exchanges. Or not enough sexual interest was expressed. She simply is not sexually attracted to you, she has comfort alone and sees you as a potential friend, not a lover.

That's why she is able to "share" information with you that you find "useless."

She is, in her mind, venting to a friend, sharing information, confiding.

It's even very likely she thinks you feel the same way.

Hmm you might be right. Any way to save the situation ? I'm off on holidays to thailand for two weeks and I'm seeing 2 other girls besides her. Am thinking of just ignoring her text for now, and when I get back from my holidays, if I feel like it, giving it another try.

That is your own best answer. When you do attempt contact, make your intentions clear. Get "dirty"! Good luck!