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| Author: | R0MEO [ Sun Jun 30, 2013 1:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | First Date flake - unsure whether to pursue |
So, after having fun at a party Thursday night with a girl, i called her to set up a date Friday afternoon. First time i rang the phone was engaged, second time no answer and no voice mail. not a good sign right? Shot her a text shortly afterwards making light of her not answering the phone and asking if she was still drunk from the night before. she gets back a couple hours later saying she was asleep most of the day because was she was tired (pretty believable). Anyway after a bit of fluff i ask her out to come walk my dog with me for Monday, and possibly some make her a sandwich we talked about on the night. No response for 24 hours but then i get "Awwww you have a dog Anyway i haven't responded yet because i have absolutely no idea where to go, all advice and criticism welcome. |
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| Author: | Mattr1984 [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 1:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First Date flake - unsure whether to pursue |
The best response to a flake is no response. Had a girl do this too me just last week (she later told me why, lesson learned). Had drinks set up, about 3 hours beforehand she texted that she was "busy at work and had to take a rain check". Pure bullshit, but hey whatever. What I used to do was respond and say "cool another time" or whatever. Which I now believe strongly is a mistake. Instead I just didnt respond. I instantly froze her out. Then, a few days later, on Saturday night, I texted "going out around [here] come along!" After a bit of back and forth I met her at a bar and she basically jumped me. Now I have her exactly where I want her. Whenever she declines an invite all I have to do is ignore her for a few days and its on. So yeah, just don't respond at all. Then wait a few days and invite her to something you are doing with your friends and do it on the day. |
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