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Author:  Acid999 [ Sat Jun 29, 2013 12:06 am ]
Post subject:  Multiple strong ioi's but she has bf

Ok guys, here's the deal....

I met the girl two days ago and we instantly got a great connection. I did some solid game on her and she responded really well. I got her number and set up a day two, and she agreed almost immediately.

Day two went as planned, we had great rapport, and she admitted she had never met a guy as incredible as me and she felt like she could talk to me for hours. Then here's where things get weird... We started talking more sexual, and she got ddb eyes. I could feel tension in the air, it was so on! I go in for the kiss after some strong eye contact, and she turned away and told me she had a bf...

I told her we couldn't be just friends, I don't do that with girls. When I left she hugged me tightly, and said if she didn't have a bf things might be different. I'm gonna see her again tonight at a party, and I need some ideas... So far all I've got is freezing her out.

Any tips? This girl really is amazing and I'd love to escalate further with her. Thanks brothers!

Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Sat Jun 29, 2013 1:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Multiple strong ioi's but she has bf

You need to decide if you just want to fuck this girl (repeatedly) or if you want her to be your girlfriend.

Option 1: Fuck. - Show her that you're discreet and that nobody will find out if she does come home with you. When 2x people have such a strong connection, it's hard for a girl to turn down the fantasy of sex with a mysterious stranger. If the sex is good, she might consider you as a potential FWB.

Option 2: Girlfriend. - if she uses the boyfriend excuse and doesn't seem down to fuck, but sees you as a potential boyfriend, then run Strawman technique. Sometimes a simple "Are you happy?" when she seems unsure is enough to make her decide she's not.

Author:  Acid999 [ Sat Jun 29, 2013 2:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Multiple strong ioi's but she has bf

Thanks for the reply!

Here's an update. I basically just ignored her at the party and got real friendly with her friend. She left a couple times and I think she had her friend check to see if I watched her leave/ ask where she went etc...

We both ended up staying until the end of the party, and she never stays too late. Then she came over and sat with her friend who was busy flirting with me. That's about it, if I do isolate her some other time and she mentions her bf again, what can I say to casually imply that I'm willing to be discrete without coming of as too needy? Thanks again guys.

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