| PUA Forum https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| K+N close at the bar she agreed to a day 2 https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=53&t=163926 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | Eerie [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 2:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | K+N close at the bar she agreed to a day 2 |
Met a girl at the bar where my game has been improving very well. I approached her with a situational opener then I did a little pull by saying ill see her later because I went to go play darts with my friends. I came back, isolated and qualified the hell out of her. This seems to be the key factor in game in my experience so far. I focus on her and I probe her with interest. Then I relate where I can and throw in situational humor. My escalation was perfect. She gave IOI by touching me on the arm a few times. I reciprocated by using my hands to usher her around a couple times. Then I just went direct and played with her hands and arm lightly. I moved conversation towards more playful flirting. I did some role playing by making a few jokes about meeting her parents (negs included). She responded very well and laughed at my jokes. The role I placed her in was my future girlfriend and that she needed to get up to standard. It was light and I only brought it up a handful of times situationally. As I did this, my kino escalated to the point that she had her arms around me as a girlfriend would. I got close and went in for the k close. She was a little hesitant; probably because her sister was the bartender there. She smiled. I didn't make a big point of her hesitaition. I remained confident and k closed later on too. She only stepped away from me for a very short period of time. Once to say hi to a friend and then, as my friend reported to me, to speak to her sister and ask about what she thought of me. I've known her sister for a while. She's been a regular bartender for me. At the end of the night, when I was trying to close my tab, is when I told her we should get together next week. She agreed and entered her number into my phone. Now I have had a horrible time when it comes to texting and flakes so here I took the opportunity to tell her that I don't like texting and that I prefer phone calls. She agreed enthusiastically. Her sister even came to give me her number (it was her last night on the job). I would like to think this was an Indirect IOI, as in maybe she wants to qualify me for her sister or something. Anyways, this happened Friday night, I didn't call or text her Saturday. I called her Sunday evening and got her voicemail where I left a simple message saying I wanted to get together with her this week. Within a few minutes, she called me back. She said she was definitely up to meet up and that she was free all week. The date is Tuesday (tomorrow) night. I'm taking her to hibachi. I told her I was craving it. I'm making the decisions and running the show. That's my story so far. I didn't call or text today. Tomorrow ill call her after work to confirm. I don't think she will flake, but that's how all flake stories start. I think I've played this one well enough. I'm an AFC still but I'm getting better. I think one of my biggest things to improve on is pulling more to get her invested. I'm good at qualifying and having conversation with them. I just need to improve on building her attraction to me. I'll keep this post updated on how this turns out tomorrow. |
|
| Author: | Eerie [ Wed Jun 12, 2013 1:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: K+N close at the bar she agreed to a day 2 |
She didn't flake so I feel good about the no-text move I did. I think this might be a lock in to my future n closes. We went to dinner and had some great conversation. More qualifying. I just dug into her to get her to talk about things that animated her. Walked her to the car and kissed her shortly there. She said she had a great time and I said we should hang out soon. I think for my day 3 attempt I'll just give her a day and then call her again to have a chat and maybe invite her to do something. |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|