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Author:  jake0454 [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 8:58 pm ]
Post subject:  First Date K close, now getting flaking

I took this girl out I meet last week, had great rapport and ended the night with a k close after dinner and drinks. I'd didn't try to set up anything directly after the first date, I went away for the weekend and I am now trying to setup a second date. I don't know if she is legit busy or just hesitant for a second date, need some advice. We had some playful text after but here are the text over the past two days.

Her:Im sure they will be. Idk yet really a few friends are coming in town for the weekend and idk when they are heading out
Me:Alright, ill leave you be then.

After the weekend

Me:Hey just got back, hope the concert and your weekend was great. Maybe get together this week.
Her: thanks it was fun, how was the beach?
Me:Yea the surf and concert was awesome to say the least. What's your schedule like this week?
Her:Cool. Ugh so busy going out of town this weekend
Me:Oh yea that's right, well are you free Tuesday or Wednesday night?

Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 5:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: First Date K close, now getting flaking

You're being to needy and she feels it. Don't message her or call her no more. .. Let her contact you now. Find another girl cause this one ain't feeling you no more cause you coming off as creepy/needy.

Sorry, but it's the truth.

Author:  jake0454 [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 11:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First Date K close, now getting flaking

So she text me today and apologized, saying she did not mean to ignore me. I havent responded and do not plan to for a at least a day or two.

Author:  richh94 [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First Date K close, now getting flaking

Quote:
So she text me today and apologized, saying she did not mean to ignore me. I havent responded and do not plan to for a at least a day or two.
Now that she's apologized you've got control again. How you come back is important- make sure to act like you couldn't care less and have had way better things to do anyways. Perhaps give short, uninteresting texts until she asks you to hangout.

Author:  jake0454 [ Wed Jun 12, 2013 12:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: First Date K close, now getting flaking

Good advice!, I about to go to a concert. So I was going to text her tomorrow sometime saying: hey I got in late last night after a concert...no worries.

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