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Author:  Spike007 [ Sun Jun 02, 2013 3:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Closing with Milf. Need help!
Ok so last night we went to a club that is mostly for people around 30 years old (I am 21). I wanted to pick up my first milf and my friend and I met 2 women. Starting dancing/talking etc. Everything seems to go well. Then we go out to eat after the night and we ended up spending about 1-2h just hanging out and talking.

It was going well but suddenly the one that was supposed to be with my friend started to let me know she was into me. Then her friend as well was really starting to let me know she is into me. She even showed me some pictures of her in her underwear and there was a lot of physical contact from her friend and I was seeing that it started to bother her so I guess it was a good thing. I knew I would not score that same night because it was almost 6am and I was tired as f****. Anyway, at the end, I took her phone number and told her I will text her. She told me she leaves town the day after.

We started texting this morning and then this is how it went bad :

Me : If you have some free times before going out of town you can let me know
Her : Loll I live close to (her friend's name)
Me : Oh ok well anyway let me know :p
Her : Why do you want to see me?
Me : I would like to know you a little bit better before asking you to marry me (inside joke from last night)
Her : Loll whatever
Me : I'm serious (Her name). It will be fun believe me
Her : What would be fun
Me : Anything you want. I have fries and shit (Another inside joke from last night)
Her : What would be fun
Me : Listen (Her name), I don't like to lose the romance but we can have fun together (At this point, I still think she leave to her hometown later today)
Her : You're talking about sex?
Me : Ah it can be a good too I guess
Her : I knew it's all you were thinking about
Her : But (friend's name) is interested
Me : It's not what I was thinking. It's you who said you were leaving later today
Her : No I live here
Me : So you lied to me! Ahh (her name)
Her : Yes a little bit
Me : Oh well, nice to meet you I guess
Her : Likewise

This was translated from another language.

Anyway guys, I need help to recover. I also lied about my age btw when I learned she has 3 girls and one of them had the same age as me lol. It was a lot of fun yesterday so I know she was very interested but how I can make her forget about me just wanting to close but still not making her think I want a relationship (which I don't think she wants).

Thanks!
Author:  Conker [ Tue Jun 04, 2013 12:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Closing with Milf. Need help!
From what you described, she wanted sex that night, and you turned her down. It's likely she's covering for herself (making herself feel better about being rejected). She doesn't understand you and is trying to write you off as a non-possibility to make herself feel better. Ironically by accusing you of just wanting sex, yes, doesn't matter that doesn't make sense, it's how she feels. Also probably spurred on by her friend being all over you and you not clearly expressing interest in your one, when she clearly showed she was upset that her friend was giving you attention.

In a way, she feels "played". Led along to think that she was going to get sex and then got "ditched".

If you'd picked up on the touching you were getting from both of them, you'd have known what they were up for, and if you're tired, then you really have to be honest about that. They have to at least know you "get it". You can tell them "Ah I wish I wasn't so tired... I'd love to keep hanging out..." etc. let them try and convince you, see how interested they are, etc.

To be honest, you're opening a hornet's nest going with these older women, they can be a bit funny like that, and they can be super keen for sex (I know, that's not such a bad thing...) but something about them can be a little bit desperate and nutty. There's a reason they haven't settled down yet.

I'm not sure you can save it, her way of making herself feel better pretty much nailed the coffin shut (which is what she wanted to do, emotionally) any gesture you make towards "wanting sex" now, will just confirm her story she made up about you, and let her feel justified and safe... and avoid being hurt by you again.
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