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Author:  Theycallmemanolo [ Wed May 22, 2013 4:45 am ]
Post subject:  Having trouble with a set

I have some trouble understanding these girls I know. They are more like a social circle of 7 or 8 girls, all are either HB6 or higher. Thing is there are two HB9's that I'm interested in. They have told me I'm good looking, and one of them even rated me an "7 on a bad day." I'm a senior in high school and I see them everyday. Anyway, I can approach these girls easily. They welcome me in every time with no problem and sometimes I'll be sitting alone and they will come to me.

Problem #1
I can be the AMOG 70% of the time when 2, 3, or even 4 are around. Other 30% I choke, don't know what to say, and silence ensues. I do some push and pull, ask girl opinion questions, I've even done a cube routine once. I try to be genuinely friendly sometimes so I don't come off as a "try-hard;" I do that because I see them everyday too. Rarely can I keep all 8 entertained at once. Also, I can get multiple shit-tests at once, which fucks with me.

Sometimes I find myself just asking questions or just being friendly (erasing any sexual tension or progression I've made with some DHV). How do I go about maintaining the interest in me without just asking questions or just being friendly? How can I spice things up and keep it different every time I'm with them? Should I cut down on the friendliness? How do I deal with the shit tests?

Problem #2
Sometimes I will be talking to one in particular and I'll feel like she's giving me IOI's and things are going in the right direction. Then the next day or even minutes afterwards she would act the same with another guy.

Ex:
HB sits with me, we talk for a while, make good eye contact, I make her laugh and enthralled in some interesting bullshit I whipped up out of no where. Next thing I know she gets up, leaves, and does the same with another guy.

All these girls act like that. What does this mean? How do I keep this from happening? Could it just be that I'm friendzoned?

Problem #3

Since I want one of these HB9's or even one of the HB8's, how do I separate them from their friends so I can spit game?

Any help and feedback is appreciated.

Author:  Mattr1984 [ Wed May 22, 2013 5:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Having trouble with a set

You don't always need to be the centre if their attention. Just sitting back, in a relaxed, dominant, slightly non-Chalant position is fine. Letting women rattle on around you is fine. Also, ever thought of just walking away when you are swarmed? If they are all talking chick nonsense (which is fine in small doses but gets old really fast, especially with younger girls) just be cool and go talk to your friends.

You could also invite them to hang with you to be in your world. Right now you are too inside theirs. Offer them the chance to live in your reality, you make the rules. Invite them along to something you are doing, make them follow you.

As for the flirtiness. Yes some girls are like this, just accept it and try escalate, touch her more lean in to say something really close then lean right right back. All that stuff.

Above all, stop giving a shit. They are just girls.

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