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| Author: | DrTooMany [ Sun May 19, 2013 2:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help with gauging her interest |
I suck at reading girls. Sometimes I think they are into me when they are not, sometimes they are into me and I miss the signs. So I met this girl and we've hung out 4 times now. We hung out 2 nights in a row with common friends about 3 weeks ago. 1st night we had tons of fun, a little kino but nothing serious, also a guy she had slept with a month ago was there flirting. 2nd night I bought her a drink and walked her to her car, got her number, she seemed to show interest. We text a little the next few days and about a week later I meet her out, shes with her friends. Our conversations were a tad boring but at the end of the night I gave her a quick kiss which turned out to be slightly awkward. HOWEVER, when she gets home she texts me saying she wants more kisses. So we plan to meet the next night, again I meet her and her friends out and this night was amazing. A lot of kino, back rubs, arms around each other, waist grabbing. I took her outside and we had a great make out session. It's been about a week since that night. We've made vague plans twice since which I've initiated but nothing materialized. At this point I have no idea how interested she is. I actually really like this girl and sort of want to pursue a relationship. I'm just not sure if I should slow down since she doesn't seem to care much if we hang out again or not. Or should I step on the gas since she was clearly into me a week ago and I've been moving slow. What should my next move be? Any help is appreciated as well as any general signs that I should look for. Thanks to all readers! |
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| Author: | Mattr1984 [ Mon May 20, 2013 3:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with gauging her interest |
Well she made out with you so that's a safe bet she's into you. You can always try freezing her out a bit. If you've tried to organise something you can leave the ball in her court the. Maybe text her in a week or so, invite her out with you and your friends then isolate. Generally, if a girl is talking to you and you are able to touch her without issues (and escalate it a bit) she's into you. Don't over think it. You just need practice, the more girls you talk to and try to escalate with, the better you will get at spotting the signs. |
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| Author: | DrTooMany [ Tue May 21, 2013 3:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with gauging her interest |
Thanks for the help. The more I think about it I'm pretty sure she's into me, just not as much as I'm into her. Apparently she's not in a huge rush to hang out again like I am. I thought about a mini freeze out and I think that would have worked well but recently SHE initiated some vague plans to play mini golf this Thursday. This will be a bit different than our past nights out drinking with friends. I need some advice! Should I pay for her round of golf? Also, I think I need to kino escalate right from the start but could use some kino tips for a mini golf session. All in all I need to keep her interested. I need to show her such a good time that she wants to hang out again soon and not 2 weeks later. I'm a very witty person and she gets my humor but I want that next level. I want to be on her mind as much as she's on mine. This date/get together will probably play a big part in all this. Any tips/help/advice is much much much appreciated. Thanks to all readers and potential responses! |
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| Author: | DrTooMany [ Fri May 24, 2013 1:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with gauging her interest |
aaaaand I bombed. I really thought this girl was into me, and she probably was, but by the end of the night last night I completely blew it. We started out playing mini golf which wasn't as much fun as I thought. Then we got ice cream and then we went to a bar where she yawned the whole time. Our last 2 nights out we kissed at the end of the night so I thought she would expect it. But when I dropped her off she was about to get out of the car with no kiss so I said, "wait, can't I kiss you goodnight?" She then gave me a very quick kiss and left. I suck at reading situations but right now I'm pretty sure she was just being nice and has lost interest. Right now I'm extremely bummed that I bombed so bad with a girl I've been crushing on for over a month. I really really like this girl so I don't know if I should try again or move on. Anyone have any advice for me??? |
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