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| Author: | Smiley X [ Wed May 15, 2013 5:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | N-Closed HB10 Hired Gun. Now Lost! |
Alright, guys. I need to advice here. So last night I number-closed another hired gun. She has to the hottest girl I've picked up since starting this PUA stuff. Solid 10/10. She was the hostess at a bar/restaurant I was at with some friends. I went with direct game and we started talking a little bit and she was smiling. When I asked for her number she started doing her own little version of cat-string theory but I recognized it and got around it. She asked how old I was and I told her I was 20 and asked how old she was (thinking she must be a damn 16 year old or something that just looks older). She told me she was 20 and that I looked older. So I got her number and when she put her name in my phone she put her first and middle names instead of just her first (idk if that has any significance? usually girls just put in their first names for me, maybe she wants me to look her up on facebook?) So here's the thing: I felt pretty good about the interaction because as nervous as I was I kept my cool and stayed composed perfectly. That's just thanks to practice. A little later I sent the same text I send to every girl I number-close. It's from Style and it goes: "This is a VIP number. Store with care. -Smiley" which is not necassarily a text that needs to be replied to, but most girls do. She still has not replied to that. Normally I would be fine with it and just go about my business and try again another day, but something about this girl has me all stressed out. She was so hot lol. So I need the community's help on this one. Should I text again another day? Should I send the Facebook request (I read in a PUA book that a lot of girls are actually more comfortable with FB at first instead of texting)? Should I try calling one day? Right now my plan is to wait until tomorrow or the next day and try calling, then do the FB thing some other time after that. Something about this girl is putting me straight back into AFC mode and it's frustrating the hell outta me. Thanks in advance guys! |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Wed May 15, 2013 5:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: N-Closed HB10 Hired Gun. Now Lost! |
Quote: Alright, guys. I need to advice here.
Wait it out bro....So last night I number-closed another hired gun. She has to the hottest girl I've picked up since starting this PUA stuff. Solid 10/10. She was the hostess at a bar/restaurant I was at with some friends. I went with direct game and we started talking a little bit and she was smiling. When I asked for her number she started doing her own little version of cat-string theory but I recognized it and got around it. She asked how old I was and I told her I was 20 and asked how old she was (thinking she must be a damn 16 year old or something that just looks older). She told me she was 20 and that I looked older. So I got her number and when she put her name in my phone she put her first and middle names instead of just her first (idk if that has any significance? usually girls just put in their first names for me, maybe she wants me to look her up on facebook?) So here's the thing: I felt pretty good about the interaction because as nervous as I was I kept my cool and stayed composed perfectly. That's just thanks to practice. A little later I sent the same text I send to every girl I number-close. It's from Style and it goes: "This is a VIP number. Store with care. -Smiley" which is not necassarily a text that needs to be replied to, but most girls do. She still has not replied to that. Normally I would be fine with it and just go about my business and try again another day, but something about this girl has me all stressed out. She was so hot lol. So I need the community's help on this one. Should I text again another day? Should I send the Facebook request (I read in a PUA book that a lot of girls are actually more comfortable with FB at first instead of texting)? Should I try calling one day? Right now my plan is to wait until tomorrow or the next day and try calling, then do the FB thing some other time after that. Something about this girl is putting me straight back into AFC mode and it's frustrating the hell outta me. Thanks in advance guys! Go out and talk to other girls. As soon as you start to forget about her, she will hit you up if she is attracted to you. If she's not, well... you didn't waste your time lol |
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| Author: | PurePlaya [ Wed May 15, 2013 6:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: N-Closed HB10 Hired Gun. Now Lost! |
You can "ping" HB 10's once a week at most. It's a very delicate dance between seeming too interested or needy, and being forgotten. Girls like that will give out their number a couple times a day, every day. Text her something basic and playful after about a week if she hasn't responded. After 3 weeks, get a big group of friends together and go back there on the same night you met her. Hopefully she's working. Be playful if you see her and just show her how social your life is through your friends. Invite her out after she finishes her shift. |
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| Author: | Smiley X [ Wed May 15, 2013 7:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: N-Closed HB10 Hired Gun. Now Lost! |
Thanks guys. I don't understand why I'm getting all worked up about this girl. I suppose maybe it's because this is the first 10/10 girl that I've gotten this far with since joining the community (probably since ever, really). Like I said normally I would have no problem just waiting it out because I would go sarge other girls in the mean time. I'm having a hard time with this one, but I think I just need to find something else to focus on and it'll be easier. Appreciate the quick responses guys! |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Fri May 17, 2013 2:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: N-Closed HB10 Hired Gun. Now Lost! |
Don't be obvious. Bring a few friends/HB 7+ with you to the place this HB 10 works while she is working. Be friendly but not overly friendly. If she says "hi" or anything of the sort, walk right up to her and give her a "real" hug (FYI: This means full on body to body contact). Then introduce her to your girl/friends (in that order) with a covert slight neg "This is Mary, she is the hostess here". Then take your seats and don't pay her any attention unless she directly comes to your table to converse. If you can leave without saying bye that would probably work to your advantage as well. Remember don't overdo it with either girl or they will sniff you out, but if this is pulled off they will both give you social proof with the other. I think HB 10 may contact you after this if she finds you even slightly interesting/attractive. Peace... |
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| Author: | Smiley X [ Fri May 17, 2013 8:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: N-Closed HB10 Hired Gun. Now Lost! |
Quote: Don't be obvious. Bring a few friends/HB 7+ with you to the place this HB 10 works while she is working. Be friendly but not overly friendly. If she says "hi" or anything of the sort, walk right up to her and give her a "real" hug (FYI: This means full on body to body contact). Then introduce her to your girl/friends (in that order) with a covert slight neg "This is Mary, she is the hostess here". Then take your seats and don't pay her any attention unless she directly comes to your table to converse. If you can leave without saying bye that would probably work to your advantage as well. Remember don't overdo it with either girl or they will sniff you out, but if this is pulled off they will both give you social proof with the other.
This is definitely worth a try. The only problem is I just got back home for the summer and all the girls I'm currently talking to are back down by where I go to college. So I'll have to work pretty quickly to get another girl interested in this area. There is this HB8 from around here that I made out with around Easter time but I haven't really talked to her much since then. I guess I could see if she would wanna go next time....
I think HB 10 may contact you after this if she finds you even slightly interesting/attractive. Peace... |
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| Author: | StinkyApple [ Sat May 18, 2013 2:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: N-Closed HB10 Hired Gun. Now Lost! |
I guess you are thinking too much. Call her soon, talk abit and go visit her(whatever your normal routine is). Your definition of her, will put yourself in a bad situation, thats why you feel like AFC. And that is why, i hate the HB ladder system. Shes just a girl like everyone else, play it tight and win the game. Good luck. |
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| Author: | Smiley X [ Sun May 19, 2013 2:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: N-Closed HB10 Hired Gun. Now Lost! |
Quote: I guess you are thinking too much. Call her soon, talk abit and go visit her(whatever your normal routine is).
Your definition of her, will put yourself in a bad situation, thats why you feel like AFC. And that is why, i hate the HB ladder system. Shes just a girl like everyone else, play it tight and win the game. Good luck. I've already called it quits on this girl. It's disappointing because she was pretty much the perfect example of the kind of girls I want to be pulling. She didn't reply to either of the two times I've texted her and the phone conversation seemed kind of awkward and forced. It happens. Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn. |
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