Thanks for the response
I have actually gone to her other job (a restaurant) that she invited me to a little while back. I bet I can get away with just telling her that i might be going there with a friend for happy hour or something then try to ask what shes doing after work.
I know people reading this think that im in complete one-itis land, which i wont deny, but im still trying to go out into the field and i have been testing out some techniques with this chick and want to see how far i can take it. As you can tell im a noob at all of this but im learning....