I met this girl about 8 months ago and we the night we met there was definitely some attraction except I was dating someone so I friendzoned her. Then when I was single she started seeing someone. About a month ago they broke up, she had her rebound and I decided to start gaming her.
Gaming is not the idea. I see a lot of guys talking about gaming a girl, which is basically...getting a girl to talk to you...and that's all they end up with. They game a girl just to have a girl talking to them and have no real intention. They want to attract her over time, but the fact is, personal interactions are not like work projects. The more work you put into them, the more they fall apart. They require an equal amount of work from both parties to actually amount to anything. You really can't solely work a girl into anything. It has to be pulled out of her.
Whenever we hang out I'm always heavy on the kino, she always gives IOIs, and she's always the one to initiate text conversations and hangouts. We go to the same university and the night before I left for my hometown for the summer we made out but there was no sex.
Kino permission and IOIs are independently permission for escalation to a kiss. Kissing is permission for foreplay. Foreplay is permission for a lay. Once you realize that Kino permission is simply permission to fuck, you will advance your ability to escalate and make big things happen. The key to skipping steps is tension. You build up the desire to go further, and then passionately jump right into it. Make a move earlier on. If she rejects your advance you can take it back a step. If she rejects YOU then you're not wasting your time with her, while also not making a move.
The next day (2 or 3 days ago) when I'm in the car on the way home she texts me, "I can't believe you're leaving!!! It's gonna blow not having you around
" We continue texting for the next few hours about *insert anything here* and then she just stopped replying. I haven't texted since she then and I'm unclear as to how to move forward. She initiated the freeze out so my plan was to just wait her out, then when she texts me flip the freeze. But I don't know if this is a shit test or if just trying to see if I care.