Background: I met her at a club thru a mutual friend (not really close). I slept over the first night. Didnt have sex but got to third base. Had dinner with her a few days after that and f-closed (dont like that term but whatever). I asked her to be my gf but she said we just met, lets get to know each other first.
We went out to movie once. We had dinner a couple of times and I paid for everything (she didnt try to split the bill or anything). I made sure dinner wasn't super expensive tho (so doesn't look like I was trying to buy her dinners).
Anyway I went to NY/Miami for spring break and after that it kind of died...
me: 3/24 13:29: Eating dim sum in new york
her: 3/24 14:55: Haha lucky you!
me: 3/24 16:24: What are u up to?
her: 3/24 19:34: Just dinner at a friends place, nothing too crazy for Sunday haha
me: 3/24 22:35: Sounds chill. I'm playing board game w my cousins haha
her: 3/25 13:48: Yeah it was fun. We played the dumbest game called werewolf. It's like mafia.
me: 3/25 20:02: Haha you don't like mafia?
her: no response 1st time
me: 3/29 16:06: [NAME]! What are your plans for the wked? (nothing I didnt reply right away after she didnt give me a response)
her: no response 2nd time
me: 3/31 14:12: Hey just got back from Miami! Got a ridiculous lookin tan on my face haha...how's ur schedule looking for this week? We are going sailing and celebrating ur bday
her: 3/31 15:03: How was your trip? Tmr I'm getting dinner with friends who couldn't make it to my dinner last Fri.
(3/31 is a Sunday, her bday is 4/1, she had dinner w friends on friday)
me: 3/31 17:24 It was great...can't wait for summer! Hope u had a great wked! I'm free on weds, wanna meet up?
her: no response 3rd time
me: 4/1 17:52 Happy bday!
her: 4/1 17:58 Thank you! Sorry I'm terrible at responding. I have a church thing every Wednesday. Hmm this week is busy. Maybe Thursday?
me: 4/1 19:06: Sure
---thursday---
me: 4/4 12:29 Hi wanna meet at ur place arnd 6?
her: no response 4th time
me: 4/4 16:58 Still up for bday dinner?
(bad...cuz I made it sound like I was buying her dinner again? she's at work tho)
her: 4/4 17:11 Can't, dunno when I'll get out
me: 4/4 17:20: Ok are we canceling?
her: no response 5th time
me: 4/4 18:30 Nvm I got plans now. Enjoy your evening.
(this is bad right?)
her: no response 6th time
----I forgot she was out of town traveling-----
me: 4/6 14:20 I want to see G.I.Joe. Care to join me?
her: no response
me: 4/6 17:59: Haha u are so responsive
her: 4/6 18:24: Sorry I'm out of town
me: 4/6 18:59: Oh when r u back?
her: no response
me: 4/16 19:52: Meowwwwwww
(dunno trying something new, 10 days no contact)
her: no response
me: 4/16 21:35: [Name]! How've u been?
her: no response
-----Boston in lockdown cuz of recent events-----
me: 4/19 17:51: U got work?
her: no response
Over spring break, our mutual friend texted me...
him: I heard you were in Miami? Ultra?
me: Nah just chilling on the beach
me: U celebrating [name]s bday?
him: Yuppp
me: Haha nice make sure she doesnt go too crazy
him: She's not
(red flag right here)
me: What r u guys up to?
I already sense a red flag from talking to our mutual friend. This was around 3/29-3/30
Another background info: I made out with the mutual friend's ex. And I also made out with another friend of his one time.
The mutual friend probably killed my relationship with the girl. Not sure if I did anything badly over text... I tried to not sound needly over text, but I guess I did? I was wondering if there was anything I can do to save it.
