Ok, I consider this to be a somewhat unique situation.
About a month ago, after not having spoke to her for a good year or so, I was speaking to a HB9 I tried to sarge before (nothing ever happened). I jokingly asked her to come on holiday with me... and she said yes. A week later we have a week away booked in a 4* star hotel sharing a room (not a bed). Was totally out of the blue and I was expecting her to pull out up until it was all booked(we paid half each of course). We are due to fly at the end of may. (Who does this?)
Now, of course, ever since this became a concrete thing I've been fully attempting to sarge this chick and until last night everything was going really smoothly. We were out with a bunch of friends for a bar quiz (no drinking) and I was sat next to her. I don't have any excuses except that I'd been having a rather crappy day, but my game and kino escalation was terrible. It was a really bad night for me in terms of social interaction, but hey, it happens sometimes. I definately DLV'd for most of the night though... urgh! There was even a moment where we were both playing with a plasticine penis and vagina and my chat was just horrible. I did make a joke about how she was handling the penis very rough which will be relevant in a minute.
Anyway, later that night I text her to arrange a hang out, just me and her. I suggested a night in at hers watching some martial arts movies.
Me: Sweet, next week we'll do something. Keep it simple and get some drinks or a meal. Or mix it up a bit and doo something interesting! Martial arts movie marathon or causing some havok in public places. Or get you some sex education haha =P x
Her: Ooh movie marathon sounds fun! An haha im good, but thanks for the offer
xMe: Ok, next wednesday, your flat. Me, you, martial arts movies, green tea, healthy snacks, push up competitions, bikini contest and you're not allowed to try and have sex with me! x
Her: Sounds like a plan stan! An haha! No chance your like a brother to me
xNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! How did that happen? Was I really that bad tonight!? THIS IS A DISASTER!
Its important just now, that I clear some things up. She lives somewhat far away from me, so us meeting up takes a bit of arrangement and so ever since booking this holiday I've only seen her once before the night out with friends and it had to get cut short for a legitimate reason. Since meeting up is such a hassle, we have, of course, been texting each other a lot. Im pretty confident in my text game and I have some pretty sweet frames going on. Just now the frame we have going is, when we go on holiday we're gonna pull a foreign chick and have a threesome (all jokingly of course, but its escalating sexual tension). So textually we have some really good sexual tension going on. Then last night I run really bad game then she said THAT.
You're like a brother to me...
I had to reply with something soon, but what!? This is a make or break reply here and could ruin a potentially awesome holiday! So I gave it a few minutes and
Me: What? Who even says that haha? Well whatever makes it easier for you to resist the temptation. But our threesomes are gonna get awkward if you don't sort out your act =P x
Her: Haha I knowww
i think (other girl) might be game to practice on after seeing her actions tonight! haha, going to bed now goodnight xMe: Yeah totally, I'll try and dream about it and let you know it goes then we can set it up haha, good night x
Hopefully this was a good reply. I called her on the bullshit brother thing and reverted back to the frame. But I don't know if it was enough. We havnt spoke today.
We all know the correct response to a LJBF is to do a longterm freezeout and come back at a later date. This wont work for 2 reasons:
1) I've just started speaking to her again after about 1.5years of being away
2) We are going on holiday together in a month
As you can all see, this is a pretty unusal situation I find myself in. She agrees to go on holiday with me and share a hotel room and flirts all the time then LJBFs me! Does anyone have any good suggestions on how to follow this up? Do I still go on this date to hers, or to I go for a short term freezeout (which could make the holiday awkward)?