I couldn't find a better word for it.

But in which case, my situation is like this: I went out sarging and clubbing a lot in the first months of this year and I have made a lot of connection with a decent amount of girls, but the problem is that I didn't really have the time to be with the girls I really liked, I just were with all girls equally and i've been busy the last months with a 2-month-education (I still made out with 2 girls and banged one from the class I went to) so I didn't have the time to be with the girls I really wanted to.

Most of the old girls i've met texted me pretty often and I saw some of them too but we lost connection after a while because I didn't have time.
Now however I got time, but I don't really know how I would "re-attract" them again (a simple "hi let's meet up again " doesn't feel like it would create a lot of interest).


Wouldn't it be easier to attract a girl that already been attracted to you once?
Or is a cold girl cold forever?
How can you pick up old girls you already attracted once but they gone cold?

Try something like this:

Text your favorite "old" girl and say "Hey, this is [your first name] from [where you met her], I know you've been thinking about me all this time, so I figured I'd give you a break and text you back."

Or "Hey, this is... I hope by now you've gotten to know all the lame guys at [your university, whatever] and are ready to date a cool guy."

Or if there was some sexual tension, say "Hey, this is... I know I haven't texted you for a while, but I've been in Europe on a male underwear model tour. But you probably don't want to know about that, I know you only like accountants."

Etc.

HTH, ~50