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Author:  Asdgewdfkef [ Fri Apr 12, 2013 1:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Initiates but then doesn't respond to texts.
So I met this HB8 a couple weeks back, got her back to mine and did the business. She lives in another city (always my luck) but we've kept in touch and have agreed to meet up next time either of us is in town. But there's just one thing. She takes sooo long to reply to texts and sometimes never does!! Note: She is from eastern europe so her writing skills/understanding isn't the best but she has been living in the U.S for 4 years now.

At the beginning we would message each other on and off, where she would take a couple of days to write back, it then got to the point where she was initiating (since I tried to freeze her out) boring shit like "How are you?" I'd reply with some subtle DHV story of what I did the weekend or in work then ask her how she is. The thing is she then takes 3 days to reply and when she replies it's "Hey husband, how you are doing? x" To which I replied but again she takes about 3 days to write back and when she does she then sends "Hey hope your ok x"

I have froze her out for 3 days now. Previous texts she has said she definitely wants to meet up again and is looking forward to it, but I'm sick of this retarded text game.

What do you think I should say next? Or should I completely ignore until she initiates again? I was thinking either a complete freeze, ignore her question and start a new convo (what she does to me) or go straight to the point and ask when we're going to meet up (although this is already arranged to be the next time either of us is in town)
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Apr 12, 2013 4:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Initiates but then doesn't respond to texts.
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So I met this HB8 a couple weeks back, got her back to mine and did the business.
Kudos on this part, Good job.

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At the beginning we would message each other on and off, where she would take a couple of days to write back, it then got to the point where she was initiating (since I tried to freeze her out) boring shit like "How are you?" I'd reply with some subtle DHV story of what I did the weekend or in work then ask her how she is. The thing is she then takes 3 days to reply and when she replies it's "Hey husband, how you are doing? x" To which I replied but again she takes about 3 days to write back and when she does she then sends "Hey hope your ok x"
So? You have nothing else going for you, your going to sit around and wait for a text message from a chick you banged once?

The mind set is making you needy, snap out of it.

If you think about it for a second, how can you be dependent with a woman that you just met? And even if you fucked, you hardly even know her. That’s exactly what women think about needy men. “He doesn't even know me… Why does he message me so much? He must be some loser”.

Who gives a shit why she doesn't respond in a long time, or at all?

Send a quick joke, a sexual remark once in a while, just so she still has you on her mind, if she does come back around. Once a week maybe.
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but I'm sick of this retarded text game.
Then don't fucking play, that's your choice.
Author:  Asdgewdfkef [ Mon Apr 15, 2013 2:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Initiates but then doesn't respond to texts.
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That’s exactly what women think about needy men. “He doesn't even know me… Why does he message me so much? He must be some loser.
But the thing is I dont keep messaging her, she was the one initiating each time, all I did was reply then she'd freeze me for a few days then initiate me again with a new convo. She just did this again and again to the point I had to write it on here.

So I decided to ignore her last text, 4 or 5 days went by with no intention of replying to what she said. I saw she posted up some shit on fb im quite knowledgeable and good at so I messaged her about it immediately teasing in a sexual nature and actually worked a treat, she was quite impressed with what I knew/did, we were having a funny convo for a couple of hours and ended with me asking "so when you going to visit me then ;)" with her saying "is that an invite ;)"...so looks like ill be meeting her soon.

Cheers for the advice tho, although im aware of all this advice sometimes it really helps for someone to remind you that she's "just a girl you don't know". Ultimately that made me not give a fuck about her and said whatever I felt like when writing to her again...
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