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| Author: | T0BlAS [ Sun Mar 17, 2013 4:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Everything I know about passive pulling. |
Find out logistics immediately. If she accepts your presence ask where she lives, how she got there, who she lives with, what she's doing the next day. If she is sharing a room with her ex bf, has to wake up at 5am for work, lives 50 miles away NEXT her. If she lives down the street, has her own room, has the next day off stay with her the rest of the night. Stop being an approach machine, worrying about attraction, needing evidence that she is dtf from the second you meet her. If she tolerates your presence even passively have faith in yourself to make it happen over the course of the 2 hours or so you have in the night. A girl with logistics who accepts your presence is what your looking for. Not a girl who is attracted to you immediately. Too many guys spend their whole nights going from girl to girl needing to be validated or ensured of success by a girl who is instantly into them. If she accepts your presence she likes you. Have faith in yourself that in the course of 2 hours a woman cannot help but become attracted to you. DONT ever leave this set. No matter what. Dont eject... dont leave if guys come in... If she is ignoring you for another guy dont leave... just stand there and say nothing for 5 or 10 minutes.... Majority of time guys are just looking to be validated... they will get blown out of self eject themselves. You must still be there you are here for the long haul. You are no longer someone wanting to leave on high notes to make yourself feel better. Endure the low points its only temporary. Enduring low points of a interaction is mandatory. We all want every interaction to be the best ever but thats not going to happen. Endure low points. Stay in knowing its shitty because you know everything in life has its ups and downs. whatever your feeling is temporary and will pass. If she cant handle it dont let her leave. If she excuses herself to go get a drink say " i like talking to you i will go with you." if she goes to the bathroom say "Okay ill catch up with you soon then" Then stand by the bathroom were you wont be noticed and when she comes out and settles in reopen her immediately. Those are the common things girls will say. No matter what go with her. Follow her around from place to place. This will change the interaction dramatically its like magic. She like gives up trying to get rid of you. You no longer are a guy at the bar she just gets aroused from then ditches. You are now in the 5% of guys who last longer than that. Often they wont have ever had anyone make it past that point in an interaction and give up trying to get rid of you and accept their fate. They will kind of say to themselves... "Well i tried... oh well guess ill have to take him home." It also makes it like you guys are no longer strangers at a bar talking... you are two people hanging out in different locations. Time is real important. Make your ideal set 2 hours. Its better to spend 2 hours with a girl who tolerates you. Then it is to spend 5 minutes with 20 sets that really liked you. A girl who tolerates you in the course of 2 hours is more likely to fuck you. If you occasionally waste 2 hours with a girl who doesnt even end up liking you at all it will be worth it in the long run for all the girls who fuck you after spending 2 hours or more with them. Increase your timeline to make the high point of the interaction not when you first meet the girl... but a slow casual buildup that finally climaxes when you are in her room 2 hours after you have first met her. Dont let her go home without you no matter what! You should have already discovered how she is getting home. Offer to walk her, or give her a ride, ask for a ride, or lie and tell her your going the same direction and tell her you are sharing a taxi. People think pulling always has to be this grand beautiful ITS ON kind of thing. That happens but the easiest pulling is just going along for whatever the situation dictates. Share a cab, walk her home... its just as good because its not about flashy bullshit or what looks pimp... its about efficiency. Follow her home however you have to. Now to get inside her house ASK TO USE THE BATHROOM. No one will refuse you its socially impolite. After you use the bathroom ask to see her room to see how its decorated. NOW either turn up the heat and escalate or take off your shoes and get into her bed. |
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| Author: | Logicfiles [ Wed Mar 20, 2013 5:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything I know about passive pulling. |
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