PUA Forum :: Texting Game : FLAKE

Ok guys so I managed to grab a number of this girl.
Problem is I already stuffed up the texting. Heres the convo.
PS. On the night I kissed her 3 times.

Me: Can i have one more kiss

Her: Oh I dont know depends on when I see you next

Me: oh ok ill go visit you at he optometrist

Her: OOO close but not quite the orthoptist

but I did detect a slight abnormality in your eye so you may just have to pay me a visit

(At this point im thinking I need to organise a date or something So i come up with this)

Me:Ok interesting can I make an appointment for tonight
NO RESPONSE

In hindsight I realize I may be coming off a bit too strong..

Guys help me out I want to send her another message to re-engage the convo. Or is there any advice so I can avoid this situation in future

I'm very sorry to say to you, but you sound very needy to me. "Can i have one more kiss"? Reread that line. If a girl would say that to you, doesn't it sound a bit weird? If this would be in a real life situation, even then it sounds weird. So you gotta work on that, but don't worry, I've got the same problem too.

Wallie

It's ok to tell someone you like her. This doesn't show neediness, but vulnerability. And you can only show vulnerability if you have a lack of neediness. Believe me, vulnerability doesn't mean 'weak', it's actually attractive for girls.

Wallie

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I understand where you are coming from , but I feel as she does not have enough comfort around me for me to open up like that . That is why I am trying to set up a meetup.

Problem is how do I set up a meetup without sounding needy. I did call her and she did in fact say lets catch up next time your at uni. I just want to know if there are any sneaky methods to build that time bridge?

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Author:	daking90 [ Sat Mar 02, 2013 5:20 am ]
Post subject:	Texting Game : FLAKE
Ok guys so I managed to grab a number of this girl. Problem is I already stuffed up the texting. Heres the convo. PS. On the night I kissed her 3 times. Me: Can i have one more kiss Her: Oh I dont know depends on when I see you next Me: oh ok ill go visit you at he optometrist Her: OOO close but not quite the orthoptist but I did detect a slight abnormality in your eye so you may just have to pay me a visit (At this point im thinking I need to organise a date or something So i come up with this) Me:Ok interesting can I make an appointment for tonight NO RESPONSE In hindsight I realize I may be coming off a bit too strong.. Guys help me out I want to send her another message to re-engage the convo. Or is there any advice so I can avoid this situation in future

Author:	Sparroww [ Sat Mar 02, 2013 5:30 am ]
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Quote: Ok guys so I managed to grab a number of this girl. Problem is I already stuffed up the texting. Heres the convo. PS. On the night I kissed her 3 times. Me: Can i have one more kiss Her: Oh I dont know depends on when I see you next Me: oh ok ill go visit you at he optometrist Her: OOO close but not quite the orthoptist but I did detect a slight abnormality in your eye so you may just have to pay me a visit (At this point im thinking I need to organise a date or something So i come up with this) Me:Ok interesting can I make an appointment for tonight NO RESPONSE In hindsight I realize I may be coming off a bit too strong.. Guys help me out I want to send her another message to re-engage the convo. Or is there any advice so I can avoid this situation in future Yeah, probably should have kept that response a bit more playful, lol. Just text her again in a day or two. About something completely different. Act like it never happened.

Author:	ian_mezza [ Sat Mar 02, 2013 7:11 am ]
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I fully agree with Sparrow. Text again in a few days time and act like it never happened. Which texting method are you using?

Author:	daking90 [ Sun Mar 03, 2013 6:47 am ]
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Hi guys , it did work I am back texting her. But how can I escalate things from just texting. She is not giving much to work with

Author:	ian_mezza [ Sun Mar 03, 2013 9:32 pm ]
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Setup a timebridge for you to meet her. Or tell her to come over your place for to watch a video.

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Author:	Wall1e [ Sun Mar 03, 2013 9:39 pm ]
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Quote: Ok guys so I managed to grab a number of this girl. Problem is I already stuffed up the texting. Heres the convo. PS. On the night I kissed her 3 times. Me: Can i have one more kiss Her: Oh I dont know depends on when I see you next Me: oh ok ill go visit you at he optometrist Her: OOO close but not quite the orthoptist but I did detect a slight abnormality in your eye so you may just have to pay me a visit (At this point im thinking I need to organise a date or something So i come up with this) Me:Ok interesting can I make an appointment for tonight NO RESPONSE In hindsight I realize I may be coming off a bit too strong.. Guys help me out I want to send her another message to re-engage the convo. Or is there any advice so I can avoid this situation in future I'm very sorry to say to you, but you sound very needy to me. "Can i have one more kiss"? Reread that line. If a girl would say that to you, doesn't it sound a bit weird? If this would be in a real life situation, even then it sounds weird. So you gotta work on that, but don't worry, I've got the same problem too. Wallie

Author:	Spinks [ Mon Mar 04, 2013 12:38 am ]
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Quote: I'm very sorry to say to you, but you sound very needy to me. "Can i have one more kiss"? Reread that line. If a girl would say that to you, doesn't it sound a bit weird? If this would be in a real life situation, even then it sounds weird. So you gotta work on that, but don't worry, I've got the same problem too. Wallie I agree with this. I had set up a date with a girl through some texting and she flaked on me and never got back to me the next day. So I just stopped texting her completely. Decided it would show her that it meant nothing to me that she flaked. It worked too. She texted me a couple days later. I honestly planned to never text her again but something came up 4 days later and I called her for a ride somewhere but told her never mind, I would get someone else to do it. Kind of did a reset to our previous rapport. Now that we hang out regularly, it is appropriate to ask for things like pics and whatnot. I don't give her what she wants (to be called pretty and whatnot) very often, but when I do, she eats it up. I did make the mistake of telling her I like her a lot. So she has me right where she wants me. Which is what you just did. She has you where she wants you. So I did another reset... You need to do a reset. Texts are great because you have plenty of time to think of the best possible responses. Critique yourself every time you don't get what you want in her response.

Author:	daking90 [ Mon Mar 04, 2013 4:47 am ]
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I will try and make a time bridge. We both goto the same University so I will try and set up something at one of the cafes.

Author:	Wall1e [ Mon Mar 04, 2013 3:58 pm ]
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It's ok to tell someone you like her. This doesn't show neediness, but vulnerability. And you can only show vulnerability if you have a lack of neediness. Believe me, vulnerability doesn't mean 'weak', it's actually attractive for girls. Acknowledging your flaws and accepting your mistakes is what keeps you truthfull to yourself. If this is a mistake you made, don't take it personally. Say to yourself: "I made a mistake, it happens. Next time it will go better". See? That way you're honest to yourself. Keep your own identity and desires, don't change for just one woman. Wallie

Author:	daking90 [ Tue Mar 05, 2013 5:19 am ]
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Quote: It's ok to tell someone you like her. This doesn't show neediness, but vulnerability. And you can only show vulnerability if you have a lack of neediness. Believe me, vulnerability doesn't mean 'weak', it's actually attractive for girls. Wallie I understand where you are coming from , but I feel as she does not have enough comfort around me for me to open up like that . That is why I am trying to set up a meetup. Problem is how do I set up a meetup without sounding needy. I did call her and she did in fact say lets catch up next time your at uni. I just want to know if there are any sneaky methods to build that time bridge?

Author:	Sparroww [ Tue Mar 05, 2013 1:30 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: It's ok to tell someone you like her. This doesn't show neediness, but vulnerability. And you can only show vulnerability if you have a lack of neediness. Believe me, vulnerability doesn't mean 'weak', it's actually attractive for girls. Wallie I understand where you are coming from , but I feel as she does not have enough comfort around me for me to open up like that . That is why I am trying to set up a meetup. Problem is how do I set up a meetup without sounding needy. I did call her and she did in fact say lets catch up next time your at uni. I just want to know if there are any sneaky methods to build that time bridge? You don't need sneaky methods. You can just make plans with someone without sounding needy.

Author:	SLIPKNOT [ Wed Mar 06, 2013 3:53 am ]
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That exchange wasn't terrible but, it was very everyday boring guy text speak. If it was me the exchange might have looked more flirty/playful... SK-I'm kissing you again..!! HB-blah blah SK-I'm gonna stalk you at the optometrist, dress sexy tomorrow. HB-that's not my job but, your eyes had a slight abnormality so you'll have to pay me a visit. SK-OMG, my eyes are bad? Does that mean you really don't have a sweet ass? HB-blah blah I try to have frame control most of the time. That frame usually is I'm a fun guy, who flirts at will, teases you, and doesn't give a fuck.

Author:	ian_mezza [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 12:56 pm ]
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Did you manage to set up a time bridge?

Author:	Jason. [ Sun Mar 10, 2013 8:53 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Ok guys so I managed to grab a number of this girl. Problem is I already stuffed up the texting. Heres the convo. PS. On the night I kissed her 3 times. Me: Can i have one more kiss Her: Oh I dont know depends on when I see you next Me: oh ok ill go visit you at he optometrist Her: OOO close but not quite the orthoptist but I did detect a slight abnormality in your eye so you may just have to pay me a visit (At this point im thinking I need to organise a date or something So i come up with this) Me:Ok interesting can I make an appointment for tonight NO RESPONSE In hindsight I realize I may be coming off a bit too strong.. Guys help me out I want to send her another message to re-engage the convo. Or is there any advice so I can avoid this situation in future I'm very sorry to say to you, but you sound very needy to me. "Can i have one more kiss"? Reread that line. If a girl would say that to you, doesn't it sound a bit weird? If this would be in a real life situation, even then it sounds weird. So you gotta work on that, but don't worry, I've got the same problem too. Wallie absolutely agree with wallie insted of can i have one more kiss? just say ok give me one more kiss, ok kiss me one last time, or just ok kiss me goodnight, and point to you lips, its a little bit cleaner

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Author:	daking90 [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 7:44 am ]
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Yer guys I got the time bridge I met up with her at uni talked for a good 40 minutes and that's it I wanted to know whats the best way to get a k-close. and also I have a feeling she may be a virgin will this have anything to do with it ?