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| Author: | evasion [ Mon Jan 28, 2008 9:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | second day rejection |
this has happened to me a few times in the near past, i meet a girl, have a great time, kiss and hold hands, so basiccly it ends well. i keep contact and arange a date soon after the 1st, but then on the second date she acts like she doesnt know me at all and most of the time refuses to hold my hand. am i doing something wrong? or is the girl just being a biatch? cheers 
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| Author: | slight [ Tue Jan 29, 2008 10:41 am ] |
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buyers remorse you need to build more comfort at the start before you kiss her. |
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| Author: | evasion [ Tue Jan 29, 2008 11:17 am ] |
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thanks dude, il try that out and see how it does |
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| Author: | Sevencircles [ Fri May 09, 2008 4:01 pm ] |
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She might have been drunk on the first date and the next time she wasn´t very interested since she was sober What do you think? |
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| Author: | M_G2009 [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:58 pm ] |
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i think you did not build enough comfort on the 1st time u 2 meet and now she has buyous remores. |
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| Author: | Gref [ Wed Jun 11, 2008 6:12 am ] |
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No, kissing is a comfort builder. Are you sure it's not YOU who are acting different. On a day 2 act like it's the first time you approached her cause all her emotions and any attraction or comfort could have disappeared over time. So open, redo attraction, get some IOI's and launch into comfort. Ya know the drill sunny. 
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| Author: | Love John [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 5:16 am ] |
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a girl might be willing to kiss a guy soon after they meet or on a first date, but she could still have buyer's remorse. so, basically, just build more comfort, tease her a little, DHV, and put your finger up when you go in for the kiss. the whole 'cat-string theory.' make yourself seem like the prize, and she's the one that's working to get closer to you. |
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| Author: | N-Dangerous [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 5:27 pm ] |
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True dat. |
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| Author: | Good Cat [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 11:32 am ] |
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I have this same problem |
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| Author: | sabe007 [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 12:35 pm ] |
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You have to put in more work on the day two's. game her all over again starting from building comfort. |
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| Author: | BetaMale [ Thu Jun 26, 2008 7:27 pm ] |
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I have had this same problem recently. I somewhat disagree with the posts thus far. As AFCs in rehab, we are sick at establishing comfort. This is how we got LJBF-ended 50,000 times. I am now experimenting with doing disqualifying/push-pull longer than I think I need to, as this generates attraction. |
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