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Author:  mooiboy [ Sat Feb 23, 2013 11:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Reinitiating by text, NEED HELP
hi all pua's..

i have met this girl at a club, i had a 10 min coversation with her, but unfortunately i had to go.
i asked for he number and she gave it. i waited 2 days and texted her, we had a good conversation by text.
she showed some IOI. after 3 weeks of texting her, i asked her out, she said that she was sorry because she couldn't. then i texted: it doesnt matter i'll survive, after that she didn't text me back, and so did i.
it's now a week ago we texted with each other the last time. we are both 19

how can i reinitiate the conversation, what openers can i use? how do i tackle this?

sorry for my english,

thank you guys
Author:  budfox15 [ Sun Feb 24, 2013 2:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reinitiating by text, NEED HELP
1. Don't be a chicken and try calling her :P You should really call the girl if you wanna ask her out as it breaks the ice and your not just some anonymous creep sending messages.
2. Just open something like "hey, something just reminded me of you!" etc etc, then ask her out - its all good :)
Author:  mooiboy [ Sun Feb 24, 2013 4:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reinitiating by text, NEED HELP
thanks for your answer, that makes sense

but isn't it creepy to call her out of the blue, after not texting for a week?
after she rejected my offer
Author:  Matthew_Shaw [ Sun Feb 24, 2013 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reinitiating by text, NEED HELP
just try to be natural and honest with her and in time im sure she will go out with you !
Author:  mooiboy [ Mon Feb 25, 2013 7:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Reinitiating by text, NEED HELP
i'm going to send her a text like:

me: Who are you?
somebody changed all the names in my phone
her: (name)
me: the sexy (name) or the ugly ( name)
her: the sexy one of course

but how do i respond to that?
or is it a good opener anyway?
Author:  Fly_Swatter [ Mon Feb 25, 2013 7:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Reinitiating by text, NEED HELP
Well the good news is that you handled her rejection well. Bad news is that it was still rejection and if you re-initiate, you'll still get rejection. But that's fine, you'll learn from your mistakes.

After you re-open, your goal should be to go back to building attraction. What did you say that she liked? What things did you talk about that she enjoyed? Try to re-ignite those feelings, quite simply.
Author:  mooiboy [ Wed Feb 27, 2013 1:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reinitiating by text, NEED HELP
i texted this hb9 after not texting(whattssapp) for more than a week, after she rejected my offer to drink something

me: who are you
somebody changed my contacts names
she: haha silly can't you see our convo history
me: ho slow down you're going way too fast, calling me silly
1. i delete my convo history
2. i have a new cellphone
she: 1. ok
2. then i'm not going to say me name cause i'm going too fast
3. you probably see my whatssapp photo now
4. and you now know i'm (name)

how should i react to this? anyone ?

me: nr 2. and 4 don't really mix well lady,
doens't matter you're still my favourite (name)
and the only btw

how about that?
Author:  Fly_Swatter [ Wed Feb 27, 2013 3:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reinitiating by text, NEED HELP
Rofl, you call her a ho?

And no, don't say that crap. You're giving her hell for 2 texts, then you go on to call her your favourite. No wonder she lost interest to begin with. Maintain your frame... Keep giving her a hard time, but don't be an asshole.
Author:  mooiboy [ Wed Feb 27, 2013 3:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reinitiating by text, NEED HELP
hahaha, no i mean howhow like slow down, not like a whore
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