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Author:  pipeariz [ Sat Feb 23, 2013 4:13 pm ]
Post subject:  help with something that has me thinking a lot!
Okay, so i've been talking to this hot chick. i met her last semester, but didn't really talk with her that much cus i was hitting on other girls. this last weeks i decided to start hitting on her. We've been texting each other not every day but frequently (more than before) and i was really getting exited because she seemed to be responding to my game. Yesterday i invited her to drink some coffee and just talk, everything was perfect, i was making her laugh a lot and also i was bothering her cus she had fell before we met up so the convo was going awesome. after we were done with coffee she told me to go w her to some bullshit college fair, so i did. when we started walking i noticed she was texting a lot w some dude that is hitting on her (she told me she is not interested in him because he is too immature and is just a friend) so on that side i'm not worried. when we arrived to the fair i had some friends there and she met w the dude, we were just hanging out like a group; it was ok. when the fair was over we went to a cafeteria nearby and we were just fucking around, making fun of ppl and just having a good time until the girl andrea ( the girl i'm hitting on) started talking about something they had planned this week of going to a club and have a good time. i felt a little out of place so i just completely ignore all the plans they were making and kept talking to a girl that was sitting w us who wasn't invited either. I was a little pissed cus i met her long ago compared to anothe guy who she invited also (she met him like 5 days ago). as soon as i found that out i got really mad and just said that i was going to class and left w the other girl.
I was really hoping that she would invite me at some point but she didnt.


Okay sorry if i misspelled something, my English is not my first language.
And my question is, what would you do at this point? keep hitting on her regardless of her not inviting you to party or just forget about her and hit on someone else?

I'm a little mad about the whole situation so i was thinking on just forget about her and hit on other girls.
Author:  Wizzay [ Sat Feb 23, 2013 7:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with something that has me thinking a lot!
Take it easy bro. Calm down. An alpha male never reacts out of anger, and you sure as hell shouldn't need to depend on a girl for an invitation to go wherever you want to go? Catch my drift? you don't ruin your chance with her just because of that .. come on.. she did nothing wrong, and don't get pissed so easy. Talk to her about it, in a playful way. Text her something like "So the guy you're not interested in got an invite, what is a guy you're interested in gonna get? Smirk." That's if you're confident enough with her to do that.. other wise come with something. But bring it up, im sure she will respond positively, if she doesn't, well, then take it from there what your next course of action is going to be depending on what she says. Good luck
Author:  pipeariz [ Sun Feb 24, 2013 2:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with something that has me thinking a lot!
You are completely right, im getting mad out of bullshit.

Thank you for your response Wizzay, it really helped.

Btw she called me yesterday, Give me your opinion on what i did.

She called me telling me that the were going to somewhere else and asked me if i wanted to go, i told her that i dont think i can go cus the place is like 1 hr drive from my home, but i told her to send me the adress of the place and I will try to go.
Like 15 min later she sent me the address. Like 45 min after i texted her:

Me: I have some good new, and some bad ones. Which one do you want to hear first?
Her: Bad news?
Me: I wont be able to go, i completely forgot it was a friedns bday and he invited me to his house. and you told me a little late (it was 11:15pm) you should've said something before.
Her: ohhh well sorry:(
5 min after
Her: and whats the good news?
Me: Next week for sure well hang out ;)
Her: haha okay :)

Critique my text game please. i am new to this forums and i really think this is helpiing improve my game.
Author:  Wizzay [ Sun Feb 24, 2013 3:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with something that has me thinking a lot!
Looking at your texts I have the feeling you're very young? Doesn't matter tho, ill throw some maturity in your text.


Me: I have some good new, and some bad ones. Which one do you want to hear first?
Her: Bad news?
Till here you're doing ok..
Me: I wont be able to go, i completely forgot it was a friedns bday and he invited me to his house. and you told me a little late (it was 11:15pm) you should've said something before.
Here, I would've said something like"Im not gonna make it, I forgot I had a friends birthday, but have fun and thanks for inviting me ;)"

You were mad at her for not inviting you before, and now she did, so you should reward her with a thank you and it will make her invite you more, because you make her feel good about it. What you did is blame her for not contacting you earlier, which is making her feel bad, shouldn't do that. An alpha male never gets caught up in tiny stuff like letting people know shit on time, you make your own agenda.


Her: ohhh well sorry:(
5 min after
Her: and whats the good news?
You did good here, she shows a little interest by asking after 5 mins instead of ignoring.
Me: Next week for sure well hang out
Say something like, "Even tho I can't make it friday, I do have some time next week for you so we'll hang out, I'll text you later about it."
Her: haha okay

That way she'll be like okay, and expecting a text. The way you did it now, increases the chances that she'll flake.

good luck and if you have more questions, ask.
Author:  pipeariz [ Mon Feb 25, 2013 8:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with something that has me thinking a lot!
Quote:
good luck and if you have more questions, ask.
thanks man!

I think im done with this girl tho. Today she came up to me asked me how my weekend was and then i asked her about hers. She told me she had hook up w the dude "she wasn't into" but now she doesn't want anything to do w him. the dude told her a story about how he was heartbroken by several girls before, so she kissed him because she was feeling sorry for him, and didnt want to break his heart. she wanted me to give her an advice of what she should do because she felt sorry for him.. i just didn't say a word because if i give advice to this girl she would literally come up to me whenever she has a problem and i am no one's psychologist. I just told her do whatever you want, don't let anyone's pity story interfere w your decisions.

I dont know if i did right on this one but i really dont care anymore. im gonna start talking to another girl.

Thanks Wizzay for your advises, they will definitely help later on.
Author:  Wizzay [ Mon Feb 25, 2013 8:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with something that has me thinking a lot!
You did the right thing, I believe, because that's what I would have done also. Maybe sometime in the near future she will try to contact you again, and then you can playfully invite her to a date if you still want to bang her. She doesn't sound like GF material to me!
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