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Author:  SpanishCat [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 2:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Got flaked hard, didnt see it comin
so last night I met this girl(hb 8.5 with a great bod) at house party. we were flirting all night long, tons of kino my hands were all over her, I was making her laugh all night being cocky and kind of silly. I didnt kiss close her, and I'm mad about that cause I know it was a mistake. however I did number close her so today when I got out of work I texted her. things were going well then she went cold and i heard nothin from her. here is how the texts went

912 pm me: nice meeting you last night
915 her: U too!
922 me: Pisces and cancer get along great. i just cant remember who told me that haha (she was talking about horoscopes all night saying stuff like were a good match for eachother)
923 her: ME!! haha im the horoscope queen
927 me: i dont know about you but im still recovering from last night i feel like death
939 her: yeah i was pretty hammered i dont remeber much
940 me: all i know is you lost your keys and were pretty much crying
941 her: hahahahaha u were trying to help me find them but james (my buddy who was gettin with this girls friend) had them all along. Lifesaver!
943 me: Not goona lie your a pretty bad drunk driver (me and my buddy wound up in her car with her and her friend going to some other party)
946 her: OMG really what was i doing wrong
951 me: Pretty much everything....lol but its ok cause you got us where we were going
957 her: hahaha i needs stop driving drunk i cant believe how many cops we seen last night they were everywhere
958 me: they were they didnt catch us were too good
1000 her: hahaha i was tweakin out
1003 me: yeah you were tweakin bad but you looked good doing it so its all good
1004 her: haha aww thanks
1007 me: no prob so what are you up to

no response since. im new to the game and im wondering what i didnt or didnt do to make her flake? should i have done something differently? i thought things were going well initially. Should i text her again? how should i go about doing that? any info or constructive criticism is appreciated.
Author:  potential pua [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got flaked hard, didnt see it comin
I've had a lot of success recently completely throwing out fluff talk (that whole conversation) in my texting.

Give her something fun and playful to work with. That whole conversation seemed boring for her and a typical convo from a dude she met while drinking.

Throw out something like "OMG you wouldn't believe what I just saw.." - and follow up (following her response) with some rediculously obvious made-up story. I always say something like "I just saw a kid on a leash, yes a leash, being walked by his mom down the street. I kept watching, completely intrigued by this, and he pulled his pants down and started peeing...the kid was 6!!"

Or have a funny role-playing idea -- I use something like "I may not have told you yet......but I'm an aspiring ass model and am looking for a new photographer...you have any camera skills"

"I'm headed to the zoo tomorrow to steal a monkey, I've always wanted a pet monkey....you in?"

Something outside of the box has been getting great responses for me lately. I used to get bad flakes after having conversations similar to yours.

Hope that helps! Good luck
Author:  Shadow522 [ Tue Feb 19, 2013 4:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Got flaked hard, didnt see it comin
I'm gonna second the monkey gig. Recapping last night gets stale quickly - good to start but move on and throw a curveball. Start with the monkey then go to the underwear model idea. My $.02.
Author:  SpanishCat [ Tue Feb 19, 2013 4:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Got flaked hard, didnt see it comin
alright I'm gonna give this a try tomorrow. I think I'll start with the model one cause when I met hear I was bustin her balls saying that she was in the presence of perfection and she seemed to.enjoy it .
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