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Author:  frogdude [ Thu Jan 31, 2013 8:15 pm ]
Post subject:  i'm being played
so i have this gorgeous girls #

says she has 2 jobs and school so shes busy

texted her a few times

first time was about 2 hours

after that about 15 mins before a ttyl

today just got a good and then ttyl

could she just be really busy or is she just letting me down slowly?
Author:  TheRedBaron [ Thu Jan 31, 2013 10:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i'm being played
What are you texting her?
Author:  frogdude [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 1:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: i'm being played
i kinda told her alot of depressive shit about me the first time we met. so first round of texts was about me and her telling me to be happy.

second round i made a comment and she got pissed and then ttyl

3rd time was flirty she said hello handsome and then i jokingly called her muffincake and pussycat. told me what she was doing then asked what i was doing and then ttyl. i wrote somewhere in the middle don't burn that beautiful body of yours which she just skipped over with questions. :(

last was just ttyl.

the last 2 rounds before last i texted her. i told her to call me to meet up. nada.
Author:  jamesd31 [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 3:51 am ]
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Quote:
i kinda told her alot of depressive shit about me the first time we met. so first round of texts was about me and her telling me to be happy.

second round i made a comment and she got pissed and then ttyl

3rd time was flirty she said hello handsome and then i jokingly called her muffincake and pussycat. told me what she was doing then asked what i was doing and then ttyl. i wrote somewhere in the middle don't burn that beautiful body of yours which she just skipped over with questions. :(

last was just ttyl.

the last 2 rounds before last i texted her. i told her to call me to meet up. nada.
Yes, you fucked up. End of story, move onto the next one. Freeze her out and that is that. Act less interested, dont be such a bitch and say depressing shit; guys hate hearing it from girls, and vice versa.

Also, I hate when girls say ttyl (it is a text, they can always answer it later imo) but w/e. Again, do the first 2 sentences.
Author:  kasabi [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 4:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: i'm being played
Most guys get a girl's number to ask her out.

Most girls give their numbers so that they can get asked out.
Author:  frogdude [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 4:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i'm being played
i'm not throwing down my cards just yet
Author:  kasabi [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 5:14 pm ]
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Quote:
i'm not throwing down my cards just yet
You haven't even entered the game yet.
Author:  frogdude [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 5:36 pm ]
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lol yeah i know its like 99% chance as you say but hey

theres alot more to this story i don't wanna divulge yet.
in a week or so i tell the rest so you all can laugh hard :(
Author:  kingmack07 [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 5:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i'm being played
Ask her out, and stop feeling sorry for yourself. If she isn't down then move on.
Author:  uluvtheLD [ Sun Feb 03, 2013 7:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i'm being played
First of all....your title alone tells me that you are not seeing this situation clearly. She is not playing you....you just fucked up. She sees you as a friend, or at the very least doesnt have an attraction towards you( and i dont mean physically).

You didnt do the basics....you didnt build much of a rapport or escalate seduction. Telling a girl your life story while being depressing is a HUGE no no....thats not a turn on for women, thats instant friendzone. Which is evident by the follow up texts and her being annoyed by your responses( your comment where she got pissed....telling her about burning her gorgeous body, etc)...these are all indications that you have not created any attraction.

She seems nice because she responds and in a friendly way called you handsome ( and i must emphasize friendly, even though you probably got a kick out of it).

You really need to go another route if you want to salvage this. First off I would change up your demeanor...she sees you as a overtly sensitive guy who is depressed.....gotta show her your fun side, not be so needy, and that you are equally busy as her (some freezing, when you text tell her about the awesome shit youve been doing.....DONT ASK HER OUT YET....dont do that until there is attraction building...you fucked up and have some work to put in).
Author:  puaninja [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 2:05 pm ]
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I LOVE the "I'm really busy excuse".

You are never too busy to do anything that you want to do.

And if she actually works 14 hours a day and goes to school, then I wouldn't even want to bother wasting my time trying to have any type of relationship with a person like that. It would just be too much of a hassle to deal with someone who has overbooked their time. Plenty of girls out there have enough free time to date guys. Go for one of them.
Author:  frogdude [ Tue Feb 19, 2013 9:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i'm being played
Alright well i'm gonna come clean here.

The chick i was texting was actually a stripper i met.

We actually did hang out once. It was in her car for thirty minutes and all we did was smoke pot. Two or three days later i texted her and she replied asking for shrooms. I said no.

So on valentines day after a few days of no texting i texted her some type of breakup message. Now i'm done.

Jesus man i'm seriously some type of fucking moron. Its been a few days and i'm still trying to forget this bitch.
Seriously tired of being this fucking pussboy that i am. Never had a gf or got laid, so i bought into this lie so readily.

Even though this was some fantasy inside my head i guess i should be happy for the experience.

I could give you guys the whole story if you care to read and make sense of it. Should I?
Author:  slipstream86 [ Tue Feb 19, 2013 11:30 pm ]
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Sorry bro.... but "breaking up" with this chick? Your relationship with her involves absolutely nothing but texting. Sounds to me like she fluttered her eye-lashes at you so she could smoke some of your stash. You've acted like a possessive pussy, and she was quite rightly weirded out by you.

Freeze her out, take it on the chin, move onto the next, and actually use some game this time!
Author:  CountMackula [ Sun Feb 24, 2013 2:13 am ]
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1. Sounds like you scared/turned her off a bit.
2. Texting early is a bit weak to me.
3. She sounds only slightly interested.

Start calling women, texting is for chicks predominantly.

When she texts, call.
If you're at work, wait until your 10 minute break, then call.

You: "Hey Jill, I saw your text, what's going on?"
Her: "Not much, what are you doing?"
You: "Working, just went on break. Only have a few minutes, but I get off at 6. Meet up with me."
Her: "Ok.{when/where}"
You: Tell you what, I'm going to pick you up at x oclock -or- meet me at J.J.Shenanigans at 8:00
Her: Ok
You: Cool.I see you then, gotta get back to work.

That easy.
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