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| Author: | ZodiacX_X [ Sat Jan 26, 2013 1:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help with freeze out |
I have never done a freeze out. I never needed/wanted to. When I was in Cali I didn't want to get attached to anything and honestly didn't find anyone worth getting attached to. I had mommy issues growing up so I blame lack of commitment on that. Anyway, so I've been talking to this girl for the last 2 weeks. I met her on the internet and unfortunately, thanks to my being drunk and fucking around sending msgs to random people who live no where near me, I met her. She's like 3 hours away and honestly, our schedules (mostly mine) haven't lined up yet for us to meet somewhere. But I got her number after a day of talking to her on the internet and we've been talking pretty regularly almost every night and txting through out the day. A few times during the week I've called her or visa versa, and we've talked for about 2 hours each time. Last night we had a pretty good conversation...I was again drunk, but she found it amusing. I'm wanting to freeze her out because I don't want shit to get boring and I'm trying to build enough tension of some kind to get her to really, really want to meet up. I just don't know for how long though. Do I just wait for her to txt me or something? Because it won't be long then. She's been initiating as many convos as I have. Or should I do like 3 or 4 days and then "get back to her when I have time"? Again, total noob on the freeze outs so help is severely appreciated. |
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| Author: | Redlight [ Sat Jan 26, 2013 3:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with freeze out |
Man, I think you're missing the whole point of freezing a girl out... You do that whenever her interest in you is dwindling or when she doesn't want to take things further physically... What are you trying to accomplish? Better jump in your car or a train or hitch a ride and go meet her! |
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| Author: | ZodiacX_X [ Sat Jan 26, 2013 3:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with freeze out |
Well yeah I guess that's what I kind of meant was what is the point of it suppose to be? So I should be talking to her constantly as long as the conversations keep going fine? |
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| Author: | Redlight [ Sat Jan 26, 2013 4:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with freeze out |
What you should do is meet her... texting and phone calls are fine, but wouldn't you rather f@#k her??? if she has invested already 2 weeks in virtual communication with you, she's ready to meet you by now... |
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| Author: | ZodiacX_X [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 5:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with freeze out |
Yes but again, we both work a shit ton. It's not about me not wanting to, trust me I do. It's a we haven't found time yet. Like, we both own small businesses so it's difficult for either one of us to drive an hour and a half one day to meet up. But that leads me to another question. So I work during the week everyday and she goes to school during the week and works on the weekend. Should I offer to drive the entire way to make it easier on her?? That seems like it would come across as extremely pushy or needy, neither of which I am. |
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| Author: | Redlight [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 5:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with freeze out |
If you guys wanna meet, one of you is gonna have to travel... If you can visit her over the weekend, it's even better... Don't think about it as being needy or pushy, but as acting out of genuine interest towards her... This whole texting thing isn't going anywhere as long as you don't meet face to face... |
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