This is my first post here, and I'm happy to be making it. I'd love any feedback that you guys might have.
My Background:
I'm new to the PUA thing, but I've always had good natural skills. My game takes a bit longer to play out (a week and a half), but I seem to have no problem getting dates.
About Her:
HB8.5. She's about 6 years younger than me, but she easily looks 21. She's tottaly perky and bouncy (mentally guys! stay with me here.) Traditionally, I date more intellectual girls, and I'm having a hard time transitioning into developing sexual tension.
Overview:
- We emailed a few times.
- I used some dysqualification "I used to be into some of those things a few years ago. Now I wouldn't be your type." and "I'm too rough around the edges for you". She responded with "I think you're my type, you're interesting" and "rough around the edges is hot"
- So we blah blah about meditation and spiritual stuff and she says she's excited to meet me
- We go get coffee, end up going to a nice lake (in FL so its warm) and we sit and talk. I do a little Kino, like checking her hands out. She doesn't mind, but she doesn't give signals back. No regrasping... It kind of feels like she wants me to take control.
- I can tell she's into spiritual stuff, so I tell her some haunting stories from my childhood, some ESP stories about my mom, and I do the number guessing thing. From 1-4 I guessed. turned it into 1-10, and guessed it. She's shocked. She thinks I'm a bit of a sprititual guru, because I do meditate a lot.
- She tells me I have nice muscles and that she likes that Im tall
- She tells me she wants to see me again.
- Today, she emails me on MySpace and says "You're nice to look at"
- We're getting together for lunch on Sunday. At about hour 4 of 7.
So I know this girl digs me. The IOIs are there, but for some reason I feel its hard to get connected on the physical level.
HELP! How do I get the physical game going?!!
Should I do the "Do you want me to kiss you?" thing?
Just go for it?
More Kino?
Or maybe Neg her for giving mixed signals (sometimes lights a girl up like a light switch)?
Any pointers on what to do when a girl says she's into you but physically keeps her distance would be helpful.
On the plus side, I think she's a fixated that I'm not falling all over her like an AFC and I feel good for not being awestruck and needy.
The PUA thing is helping already.