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Re: 1st date goes well she follows up positively, then quiet
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Author:  dipset [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 12:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st date goes well she follows up positively, then quiet
Hi guys, just wondering if you could give me your thoughts/advice?

I met this girl last saturday at a bar, talked to her in there for 10-15 minutes then when leaving to go to the club told her to come along and that my friend works on the door. She came along with 5 of her friends and my friend hooked her up with free entry.
Inside the club we joke about then makeout.
Between saturday and wednesday we SPAM a bit each day and go out for drinks on Wednesday night. It goes well and again we kiss at the end of the night.
Afterwards I send her a "had a fun night, hope you got home safely" message. She responds positively on Thursday "home safely. thanks so much for drinks. It was a cool place. Had fun" to which i follow up "pleasure, hope your interview goes well"
Then I message her today (Friday) saying "how was the day with your mum?" cos she mentioned she was spending Thursday with her mum.
She hasn't responded to this message when previously she'd usually respond within an hour......and because it's SPAM i could see that she looked at the message a couple minutes after i sent it

Any thoughts/advice on how to follow up would be most appreciated.

Thanks
Author:  TonyRichards [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 1:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st date goes well she follows up positively, then quiet
I don't see anything wrong, i'd say just wait it out. She probably just doesn't feel like texting right now. I personally don't respond when I don't feel like it, so don't worry. Unless she wants you to start escalating things and be more sexual. If no response by the end of today, maybe call her tomorrow or the day after. she's probably on her period too.
hope this helped a bit
Author:  dipset [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 10:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st date goes well she follows up positively, then quiet
Thanks for you response. appreciate it.

So she responded the next day (around noon) saying "I actually clearly am not in tune with the weather and just had myself a frozen yogurt. Day with mum was great - totally got myself a job - wasn't too hard!"
Reason for the weather comment is that it's snowing where we are.

Without wanting to overthink things was thinking of responding either tonight or tomorrow morning along the lines of "Awesome, it's pretty compelling when you say ur biggest weakness is that you just work too hard! U free the beginning of the week? Let's hangout american style and go bowling/drinks...."

Again the reason for biggest weakness comment is that we were joking about the standard interview questions and how to respond.
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