Objective: F-close or at least lay the groundwork for an f-close in the near future
Target: Met her online a few months ago. We went out once on a dinner date which was boring and unspectacular. I tried to set up a second date with her, but she flaked out at the last minute, because she just got off work and was tired. I had some other stuff going on, so I just forgot about her and moved on. To my surprise, she texted me a few weeks later, and now I’ve set up another date with her for Thursday night.
Background: She comes off fairly conservative, but she's told me she likes to drink beer (but not to get drunk). I also once asked her an innocent question about her bed, and she replied, "Why do you want to know
"What's the best course of action for getting to my objective?
She moved into a new place recently, and I’ve been asking to see pictures, but her phone is acting weird, and the pictures don’t get sent. I heard that girls are more likely to allow you entry into their place if you’ve been there before and nothing’s happened. So my brilliant plan is when I pick her up, I’ll ask to quickly take a look at her room and then just as quickly leave for the bar or restaurant.
I'm struggling with whether I should take her to dinner and then have drinks after, or just forget about dinner and go right to drinks. Once at the bar, I plan to escalate kino as much as possible, but I’m reluctant to try to do the k-close in a public place. Instead, I think my best bet is to somehow ask if we can go watch a movie at her place. I haven’t figured out exactly how I’ll do this, but I’m hoping that we each have at least two drinks, and when there’s a lull in the conversation, or we start tiring of the bar, I can ask then.
So that’s my plan so far. Any suggestions or advice?