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| Author: | glowstik [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 1:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | how do you end your first dates? Any text/phone rules |
Saturday night I took a hb8 out for dinner, a cookie, and a movie on a first date. She rove and I paid for everything. I almost never pay for everything. It was a good time and a positive date. When she ropped me off I tried to setup a day 2 by asking about her schedule and "doing this again." She said "I'd like to, but I don't know when.". I then said alright and reached for the door but I turned back and gave her a kiss, the kissing continued, and I escalated to feeling her. So question, hope you're still reading. Seeing how I initiated the first date and paid, plus tried for a day 2 somewhat (could've done better there) I feel like I can just let her decide to text me again. What do you think? I am in the mindset, that no further action is required on my part regarding us meeting for a day 2 date or whatever Thanks. PUA pal It's been 3 days and no contact, I held to little contact rule before day 1. And have already setup new day 1's for this Fri and sat I feel like everyone should comment because "contact rules" after a first date are topics we need more discussion. |
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| Author: | glowstik [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 10:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do you end your first dates? Any text/phone rules |
Fck it, I called her tonight around 9:30, she was at the gym. Short conversation... she asked to call me back. Got a call later, she talked about cosmic bowling and going sometime. Hahah, I had to press her about "us going" sometime... to actually us going. I said so like next Friday or this, gave the options. In a nutshell, we're going this Friday, and she's gonna text me later about the time. Hate when I think I might sound boring on the phone but whatev. |
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| Author: | benbraddock [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 4:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do you end your first dates? Any text/phone rules |
rAFC here, so you are doing better than me. I'd never pay for a full dinner on the first date unless we are talking about a woman of a certain class, and if you're both over 35, say a co-worker in the office you've been increasingly establishing rapport during work and ask her out for dinner, then I'd swipe the platinum card. Mind you, I am continental European so thats culturally acceptable. But good going on getting the Day 2. |
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