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| Author: | cbplayer [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 6:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What's the best move to make here? |
So basically I met this girl at my university. I noticed a few IOI's(indicators of interest). She keeps eye contact. Her pupils dilate around me. She introduced me to friends and often ask me questions. Anytime we hung out, she'd ask me what I'm gonna do later. like, " are you just gonna chill here?" or " are you leaving now?" She'd also laugh at most of the things i say. Even things I dont consider funny lol. I've heard her friends claim she's a bad texter. So, via text I would flirt with her and she'd normally flirt back. She's generally responsive although sometimes she takes an entire day to reply and every once in a while she may not reply. She's busy and usually gets back to me so i didnt make a big deal when she didnt reply So, one day, we have lunch together and her friends happened to be there, idk if this is good or bad. Anyways i asked about any parties going on and she mentioned one and she was unsure if she's going. Later i told her to go to the party with me. She said she still wasn't sure if she's going. i went with my buddies. I found out later that she went but she didnt tell me... Then a few weeks later, after some flirting i told her to go shopping with me and help me pick out a gift for my aunt. She never replied. At that point i didnt know if I should think she declined my invite or forgot to get back to me, since she's a bad texter. I saw her later on and she acted normal around me. We talked for a bit. She did ask me questions, to get to know me a little better. Idk at this point, should I abort? Do you think she's not interested? Back then I knew virtually nothing about pua but now I'm a little more informed. I feel like I've done a large amount attraction but I don't quite think I qualified her. I've shown interest by texting her but I didn't tell her things that I like about her per se.. Additionally, I haven't had much time to kino her. Could this be why is didn't get back to me about my shopping invite? Could it be that my problem was the fact that I didn't really qualify and comfort her? It's been about two months since we spoke last. What should I do? |
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| Author: | El_Diablo [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 7:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What's the best move to make here? |
Dont stress out, just act normal everytime you see her and try not to ask her out by text, always make the phone call, so you can hear her reaction, if she acts wierd and gives all mixed signals just give her space, its good cause she will wonder why you are not looking for her any more and get more interested or if she never wanted anything you can go on with your life easier. Always wait for her to make contact and Dont waste all your energy on one woman,, In my past experience nobody is never too busy to respond to a text message, sorry to tell you this when there is interest you will notice it right away. Keep your head up bro, not the expert here but just a friendly recommendation. Excuse my english also, not from the US. Cheers ! |
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