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Author:  nrjose27 [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 8:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Seeing hot friend at mall, but she's bringing her friends D:
So my friend, a Peruvian HB9, has invited me to chill at the mall with her, along with her friends. If it was just the two of us, maybe Gaming her could've been a little easier, but with her friends present (to which I'm betting my bottom dollar that it's a mixed set), her actions are influenced by their very proximity. The only person I'm gonna know is HB9, but her friends could be challenging if they're protecting her from someone who they don't know (i.e. ME!!!).

How can I Game my Peruvian babe, such as isolating her so it's just the two if us, flirting with her, making her chase me, escalate kino, build rapport, DHV, create sexual tension, and all other sorts of things? Could her friends impede my success or can there be some sort of use for them? Is there anything I should watch out for? Etc, etc.....
Author:  puaninja [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 8:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Seeing hot friend at mall, but she's bringing her friend
Avoid being a tagalong. Either isolate her or go off into shops by yourself whenever they start their little kiddie giggling/talking to each other bullshit. Then come back and try to get her attention again. Get on your phone and ignore them if they start getting too annoying. And anytime in between all of that be running your game on the Peruvian.
Author:  nrjose27 [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 8:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Seeing hot friend at mall, but she's bringing her friend
Okay, so let's start off with something small: To begin with, how can I isolate her from her friends? The way I see things now, she'd rather have fun with multiple people rather than just one guy. It's tough for a guy like me to match the energy level that of a group's.
Author:  olliepower [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 10:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Seeing hot friend at mall, but she's bringing her friend
This is easy. I would flake. Don't call her or try to follow through on the date. I would only go if she calls me the day of or the day before to make sure we are "still on". Otherwise I wouldn't call her or make any attempt to meet up with her for the mall date.

It sounds like it is going to suck going to the mall with a bunch of girls. If you flake it makes you seem like you have high value and are non needy. Invite her out another day in a place/environment you are comfortable. She should play by your rules right?
Author:  heat2 [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 10:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Seeing hot friend at mall, but she's bringing her friend
Think smart dude, maybe she's testing you to see how you will handle the challenge.

My advice is win her friends over. Be awesome with then and there you goooo... you have the advantage.. All her friends will be cheering for you and will be talking about you.. That's a big plus cuz you will be in her mind more and therefore get attraction.

Good luck
Author:  nrjose27 [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Seeing hot friend at mall, but she's bringing her friend
***UPDATE***
I get a text from her:
Her: "Hey =) Never mind cus our guy friends are not coming anymore, so its just gunna be a girls day out! Sorry"

Dammit! So now it becomes a GIRL'S NIGHT OUT! So I send her two texts:
Me: "I still gotta go tomorrow cuz I need to exchange a Christmas gift, but how about I meet your friends in a quick jiffy, just so I get acquainted with some new faces?"
Me: "I was supposed to go today, but my sister left for her dance workshop early, and SHE was the main reason why we were initially going to the mall."

So where do I go from here? I mean, I've already established a Day 2 with her. She has to show because I made a pinky promise with her (girls consider this shit sacred). I was kind of hoping I'd see her sooner.
Author:  heat2 [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 11:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Seeing hot friend at mall, but she's bringing her friend
go no contact for a few days then come back.. act like nothing happend and invite her to hang out :)
Author:  nrjose27 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 6:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Seeing hot friend at mall, but she's bringing her friend
***UPDATE***
On the day of the mall meet, she sends me a text:
Her: "Oh lol Yeahh, i guess if we bump into eachother"

What I'm gonna do is not respond to her. I'll take olliepower's advice and wait until our promised Day 2 comes and see if she's up for the meet if she shoots me a text about it. (We're gonna grab some babo tea, and i want to practice venue changing to give her that distorted time feeling.) It's a pretty damn big mall, too, and I'm not gonna let us bump into each other by chance!!

Maybe I could invite her to the city with me tomorrow, but then again, most of my friends are AFCs and not even that decent looking. (The reason why I'm going in the first place is to get out of the house and practice my sarges.) It might give off the wrong impression that I can't choose attractive friends. So I guess I could eventually set a one-on-one plan with her to hit up the city probably in the spring/summer, where the temperature's warmer and girls get to show off more of their skin lol
Author:  puaninja [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Seeing hot friend at mall, but she's bringing her friend
Yea, she's giving you what I call "AFC bait". Only an AFC would take the bait she is putting out. First it's meeting her with her girfriends, which is a DLV for you. Then she flakes on that plan. Then it's playing hard to get and telling you that she'll only see you if you bump into her by random chance. She's just trying to see if you'll be needy and chase her that way she'll know not to date you.

Good move to not respond to her. Let her chase you. Pass her shit tests.
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