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| Author: | Ninja1992 [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 8:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | "Come back to my flat and watch a movie" dates... |
Recently Father Christmas had the grace to bestow upon me something that might very well turn my D2 success around - a portable DVD player! I've been thinking of ways to integrate this into my D2's. Bare in mind that I'm not very sexually experienced, so the whole kinaesthetic feel of 'how to get laid' is not there. First of the following questions come into mind: - What films are best for setting the scene? I'm guessing either something funny, or a rom-com or something... - How should I behave? I think I should be more precise and to the point here, but not in the sense that I'd turn into a massive perv as soon as I walk in the room with her - don't want to seem needy and have LMR crop up. (this has happened before!) - How to go about getting her back to yours? It's obvious that you need to be open about the notion of taking her back to your place, just saying it an innocent yet leading manner, a bit like this... "I'm thinking we could get a coffee together and watch a movie at mine, sound good?" I'm not sure about leading the situation (putting pressure on her) vs. no pressure and free choice. I don't want to seem as if I'm forcing her to 'put out' by being in the same room as me. So the next question would be.... - How to go about generating as much comfort in her as possible? Obviously the environment would have to be clean and hospitable, but other than that. I think a healthy balance of comfort and expressing sexual intention is a good thing - turning her on but at the same time making her feel cofmortable with what she's doing. Please respond! Ninja |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 3:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Come back to my flat and watch a movie" dates... |
- What films are best for setting the scene? Doesn't matter as long as its something she's willing to watch. - How should I behave? Just normal pua mode. Sexually confident and smooth. - How to go about getting her back to yours? Tell her you're bored and see if she wants to watch this movie you just picked up. - How to go about generating as much comfort in her as possible? Don't come on too strong. Get her laughing, create some sexual tension, do a little push/pull. |
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| Author: | kate6 [ Mon Jan 21, 2013 7:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Come back to my flat and watch a movie" dates... |
Thumbs up on the previous commenter. You should avoid pressuring a woman once she's given you enough trust to be alone in your apartment. At that point she's made it pretty clear that she's seriously entertaining the idea of sleeping with you. Moving to quickly or making her feel like sex is "expected" of her could give off a rapey vibe and "shut things down" for you pretty quickly. Assuming you're patient and looking for more than just a quick hook-up, take your time and let the sexual tension build. Find out what kinds of movies she likes and pick out a good one she hasn't seen. Some girls love suspense/horror movies and will be bored as fuck watching a romantic-comedy. Some girls were abused in the past and are very sensitive to violence so they'd be absolutely sick watching a slasher movie. It really depends on their personality and what you already know about them. Comedies like pineapple express (not too offensive or political) are pretty safe as a default/backup when you don't know for sure what she'd enjoy. Also, they're the kinds of movies that allow you to comment during the movie and make jokes without either of you missing something crucial to the plot. |
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