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Author:  learningslowly [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 5:53 am ]
Post subject:  Contacting girl on Facebook after long period of time
Apologies if this is in the wrong section.

So a few months back I was out at a bar and introduced myself to a stunning Japanese girl, we spoke for about 10 minutes and got on well. As she hadn't been in England very long she didn't have an English phone number to give me so she gave her name instead to add her on Facebook. The next day I looked for her profile but had no luck, she popped into my head today so I had another search and played about with the spelling and BAM there she was...must have mistyped it on my phone when a little tipsy.

So... is it worth me trying to add her now after so much time has passed as I have no clue if she remembered me (probably not). Although, I did type into her phone some English speaking tv shows as she asked for suggestions. so maybe if I brought that up it would click who I am? I wouldn't know where to go from there though either, some small talk and arrange a date? I really suck at online game.

Oh and this isn't a pathetic tale of one-itis as I've had some good success since then, but I have a thing for Asian girls and she was so cute! There's very few in the town I'm from as well.

Any advice would be much appreciated.
Author:  stateofarrest [ Sun Dec 30, 2012 9:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Contacting girl on Facebook after long period of time
Definitely add her. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?

I would add with a message along the lines of 'hey, I finally found you' or something like that. It's not great, but it will probably get her talking back - and then you can go in with the conversation topics about English tv shows. The best thing about that is, after a few months, the chances are she's now watched those shows and you can talk about them.

I find online game the easiest of all games to get results - just be really positive, use the wink face a lot, and be a little braver with taking it to sexual grounds. Thing I found with Asian girls though (I like them too ;) ), is you never know where they're at in sexual maturity. But, if you're girls other here, and out in bars and clubs, then I suspect she probably knows what shes doing.

Good luck.
Author:  learningslowly [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 2:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Contacting girl on Facebook after long period of time
Thanks for replying, I added her a few days back and she accepted. I'm not sure if it's possible to subtlety give the conversation a sexual charge to it because I haven't seen her in such a long time, and also the language barrier is getting in the way which wasn't much of an issue talking in person with her.

I joked around a little then said when we are both back at university (away for the holidays at the moment) we should go for some drinks. Took a day for a response but fortunately she replied "yea definitely we should!". I don't want to continue with arbitrary questions in the mean time so I asked if she had an English number yet as I don't use facebook very much. Waiting on the reply but I plan to just text or ring her a few days in advance if she does have a number.

Oh yeah thanks for the tip on Asian girls, I can't tell much from her Facebook profile (although no pictures with guys) but she does go out to bars and clubs so who knows guess I'll find out! Only other concern is I've put myself into potential friend zone without realizing it, but whatever I've gotten further than I thought so I'll see how it goes.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 7:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Contacting girl on Facebook after long period of time
I like your name man, thats actually the name I used on the forum where I kept my journal for a year. Its a great attitude, slow and steady improvement.
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