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| Author: | hayzie [ Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Am I Screwed? |
Here's my situation: There's this girl in my circle of friends that has an HB8 or HB9 sister. Well, about a year ago we were all out at a club and me and the HB8/9 made out for a bit towards the end of the night. When we were leaving, she invited me to her place, but she didn't make shit clear to me, and I didn't get it. So at that point, I was a non-sexual being to her. I happened to run into her the next day at a gas station, and fucked up worse. I tried to start up a relationship with her and got friend-zoned. If you can't tell, I really like her. I went on my way though, and stopped pursuing the HB8/9. We still run into each other a lot. We just say hi, chat a bit, hug and say bye. Nothing major. Well over a year's gone by now and I still am interested and lately, I thought I was getting signs of interest from her too. I decided I was going to ask her if she wanted to hang out, the next time I saw her. Instead, the day after I decided that, I learn from the HB8/9's sister when she was talking to one of our friends that the HB8/9 has got a FWB thing going on at the moment. What should I do? Should I still see if she wants to hang out? She's just got a FWB not an LTR. Should I leave her alone because of her FWB? Should I leave her alone due to the god awful shit I did a year ago? Is there a way to fix the non-sexual being thing? Any advice on getting unfriend-zoned? At this point, any help, is a major help. I don't think my head is too clear at the moment. Oh yeah, and I'm not wanting to get the HB8/9's sister involved. That just seems high schoolish. Thanks guys |
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| Author: | ants3940 [ Mon Dec 24, 2012 1:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Am I Screwed? |
message her, flirt, be confident, slip sexual content in there, if she reciprocates it then your on, take it from there. you have NOTHING to lose! |
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| Author: | Langlo [ Mon Dec 24, 2012 7:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Am I Screwed? |
Quote: message her, flirt, be confident, slip sexual content in there, if she reciprocates it then your on, take it from there. you have NOTHING to lose!
this.I would add. Forget that what happened a year ago EVER happened. You know what? You’re not sure if it did happen. You don’t even remember. She already has sex. You have to show her that she can get that from you AND MORE! Why would she mess with a good thing? You didn’t get friend-zoned. You got rejected. This is actually better 
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| Author: | hayzie [ Sat Jan 26, 2013 7:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Am I Screwed? |
Thanks for the help guys. Sorry for the delay, I've had a lot going on. I see where you're coming from. I guess enough time has passed for things to be a distant memory which should be fairly easy to ignore. I'm still wondering if I've been friend-zoned though. She's made weird comments to that effect, but once again, it's been around a year since she's made a comment like that. She does seem to care about what goes on with me more than most people. Since I posted this thread, I've lost a loved one and my dog in addition to being ill and on each occasion, she asked me how I was holding up more than anyone else by quite a bit. |
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