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Author:	decyph3r1 [ Tue Dec 11, 2012 7:26 am ]
Post subject:	Kiss close gone sour
Hey guys, this is my first post here and hopefully you can help me out. I meet this girl a few months back randomly at a mates house and talked to her a bit and thought nothing of it. The next time I ran into her we chatted, which turned quite flirtatious, by playing games and making funny remarks at each other. She ended up adding me on facebook the next day I accepted. I ended up messaging her a month or so later. The conversation and flirting started, almost automatically. after about 2 weeks of this I threw a small party and she came along. It seemed like sparks where flying with similar interests and personalities. We ended up going clubbing together and having a great time, I ended up getting a kiss close. This week all seemed to be well with the texting and facebooking remaining pretty much the same, she invited me to her house for a get together with a few mutual friends, playing games but later in the conversation she says "oh btwwwww about saturday... oops yeah err" "i dont like you sorry ><" "like i made out with you coz i was drunk. and your and my friends kept trying to get us together o.o stupid friends " then the convo sort of ended up going on as normal without the flirteness. Im not exactly sure what went wrong. Could you guys possibly help me understand or even better give me some advise to get back on the right side

Author:	User13247 [ Tue Dec 11, 2012 11:04 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Kiss close gone sour
That was a shit test. Firstly, she talks to you, comes to your party, invites you over, etc. She likes you. Secondly, there's no need to like each other to kiss or have sex. I would guess she meant she doesn't like you 'in that way', thinking you are 'moving too fast'. This happens when you are perceived as too needy. So ignore her for a little bit, see if she comes to you. If yes, great, ignore her a little more, then invite her to something fun. If no, also great, do exactly the same thing. Move on to other girls in the mean time.

Author:	puaninja [ Tue Dec 11, 2012 12:50 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Kiss close gone sour
At that point it doesn't matter if it's a shit test or a genuine iod. You have either done something to make her not like you (probably beeing too needy) or she likes someone else. Rarely would a girl ever say "I don't like you" unless you are coming on WAY too strong, so I'm thinking you did something really wrong previously. All you can do is game other girls and soft next her. Make sure she knows about and sees the new girls you are with. Then tell her later on, "Hey, I hope we can still be friends. I think you and I have a brother and sister connection."

Author:	decyph3r1 [ Tue Dec 11, 2012 6:05 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Kiss close gone sour
Firstly thanks for your help guys, I have a couple questions on the advice you gave me Quote: This happens when you are perceived as too needy. This could have been possible as I stupidly txt her the night after. And ended up txt her the monday night aswell. (she ended up messaging me over facebook on tuesday) Do you have any suggestions for texting or facebooking her? Quote: So ignore her for a little bit, see if she comes to you. If yes, great, ignore her a little more, then invite her to something fun. If no, also great, do exactly the same thing. Move on to other girls in the mean time. What do you suggest about this party, -should I act like im going then text her just before with something better came around - go and hit on other girls - or go and act like nothings happend what would you suggest?

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