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Author:  SkippyASW [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 1:53 am ]
Post subject:  Number and escalation problem

A close friend is dating a HB8. She called and asked him this evening if he could introduce a friend to her roommate (HB9) who broke up with her BF last week. They wanted somekind of doubledate So here I step in.
Tonight we went to a coffee shop for just an hour, but we talked about boring topics and wasn't able to build too much rapport. She was kinda aloof and I wasn't in my best shape. And also I was a bit taken by surprise they wanted to meet in like 2 hours. Yeah, I'm kinda looking for excuses here... but it's my fault to be honest...
As if that wasn't enough, another problem came along the way. At the end, I fuckin' froze and forgot to ask her the digits. I admit, I usually turn in a super AFC when talking to really nice women (gf material). I guess I'm more comfortable around HB9s and 10s but who are more slutty and stuff. Christ...dunno why that happens!
My friend, who is a natural all the way, asked me why the fuck didn't I take her #? I told him I froze..blabla... and he said he could ask the chick he was dating for those digits or the FB account of the other chick. So tomorrow or the day after tomorrow, I would probably have her #.
Now, wtf is the first thing I should text or say to her then?
How could I turn the things around in my favour? I'm pretty good at texting, but in this situation, I've no idea, what should I do. I'm thinking of saying something that I was sure we would meet again, the 4 of us, and I didn't need her #. Or that I was feeling sick and I wasn't myself tonight.
I can't think of something else right now...
And I need to escalate things a bit before meeting up again! I guess...

Author:  1T4S2T4C [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 4:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Number and escalation problem

I field tested texted a girl "when are you gonna get me that drink you owe me!?"

she replied: "I dont recall owing you a drink"

I responded: "Ya me either I guess, doesnt mean we shouldnt get one sometime"


Actually worked out alright for me

I tried to put myself in her shoes......at first it seems chessy as hell, but if she starts wandering with the idea, she may wonder why you think she owes you a drink, and she may even run into the conclusion that "you are owed a drink by another pretty girl you hang out with" and you mixed them up! haha, just have fun with it!!!

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