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Author:  bearfox [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 7:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Making 2nd date in a weird situation
Alright, so the thing is... I have a girlfriend who's been making me sick lately, and I started talking to another girl a couple of weeks ago. We'be been talking quite alot (facebook, texting etc..), and she seems interested. 2 days ago, I went to her house and met her. We had a good time talking alot about different things in life, and I ended up sleeping in her bed that night. We didn't kiss or have sex, but when we went to bed I layed down close to her and she put my arm around herself while our legs were flirting. For all I know I probably could have fucked her that night, but it just didn't happen.

I told her not to tell anyone I had been there, and she had no problems agreeing to that. She also told me she was glad her own relationship had ended a while ago, and she loved being able to do whatever she wanted with guys.
Still, with all those signs of interest, im still finding it difficult to read what she's really thinking. We're still talking alot, but she never says something to make me know she wants more. And this girl also know about my girlfriend, but it feels like she don't really care about it.

How should I proceed to ask for another meeting with her? I think i'd like her to be a fuck friend, but I still want to feel that she feels something special about me.
How should I talk to her to make her want that 2nd day with me?
About my girlfriend.. that really doesnt bother me one bit at the momemt for some reason...
Any opinions and help appreciated!
Author:  BITmixit [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 10:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Making 2nd date in a weird situation
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For all I know I probably could have fucked her that night, but it just didn't happen.
*smacks forehead* SEX WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF (THE MAN) HAD MADE IT HAPPEN. You should have turned her around, gone for the k-close. You would have definitely gotten the classic:

"I don't think this is a good idea" or "You have a girlfriend this is a bad idea"

then pull out the classic

"I know it feels so wrong"

Then just continue getting off with her, escalate then fuck the shit out of her.
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I told her not to tell anyone I had been there, and she had no problems agreeing to that.
GOOD MOVE.
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How should I proceed to ask for another meeting with her? I think i'd like her to be a fuck friend, but I still want to feel that she feels something special about me.
urgh, don't be a fucking douche bro. I personally think that playing the game professionally is building up respect for each other enough that you want to fuck. Mindfucking/getting her addicted and knowing your going to break her heart/fuck with her is such a douche move bro.
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How should I talk to her to make her want that 2nd day with me?
just use a opener on her, text game/call. She's obviously attracted or wants to have some slutty fun after being kept on a cockleash for so long.
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About my girlfriend.. that really doesnt bother me one bit at the momemt for some reason...
If you don't want your girlfriend anymore then dump her. I hate the "Lets use girls" attitude towards PUA.
Author:  bearfox [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 11:05 pm ]
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Thx for answer!

I know I could've fucked her.. but even though I enjoyed laying there with her, some part of me just didn't feel like having sex at that moment. It's so fucking weird suddenly laying there with another girl, so I didnt really feel like doing it.

Also, it's difficult how things are with my girlfriend.. We've been together more or less since we were 15-16 (18 now), and it's gonna be pretty complicated to break up. That's why I want to have some time to think about what I really want to do.

And I don't want to be a douche to this other girl, I just need to know that she enjoys our relationship as much as I do. I agree it sounded a little selfish the way I said it.

Im afraid I've gotten a little obsessed with this new girl, and it feels like the only way of getting rid of those feelings is to have her confirm her feelings for me.. lol..HELP
Author:  BITmixit [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 11:27 pm ]
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Also, it's difficult how things are with my girlfriend.. We've been together more or less since we were 15-16 (18 now), and it's gonna be pretty complicated to break up. That's why I want to have some time to think about what I really want to do.
Tell her you want to have a break. Its a bit of a douchebag move, just tell her your not feeling the same way as you used to and want a couple weeks to think things over. Just be straight with her. If she accepts you have 2 options with the same question.

1) Give it two weeks, if you miss her/start feeling strongly then get back with her.

2) Give it two weeks, fuck this other girl. If you don't want her/miss your gf tell your gf and if she asks if you slept with anyone else be honest.
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And I don't want to be a douche to this other girl, I just need to know that she enjoys our relationship as much as I do. I agree it sounded a little selfish the way I said it.
It proper did, I don't condone guys stringing girls along. its bitchy when girls do it but we are men we can handle that shit. Girls get emotionally scarred by that kind of bollocks.
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Im afraid I've gotten a little obsessed with this new girl, and it feels like the only way of getting rid of those feelings is to have her confirm her feelings for me.. lol..HELP
Haha no, the only way to get rid of them is to fuck her. To me it sounds like the standard "I havent fucked a new girl in a while" syndrome, I imagine you will hear this girls cries of passion, orgasm and shit. When she wants to cuddle afterwards you will miss your ex and want her to leave.
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