I have no idea what to do to make a day two with this girl! We made out(I've had my eye on her for a while) and I have no idea where to go from here to keep her interested!
What should I do? I need a lot of help with this one!!
Peace,
Troyden.
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| Author: | Troyden [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 2:03 am ] |
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I have no idea what to do to make a day two with this girl! We made out(I've had my eye on her for a while) and I have no idea where to go from here to keep her interested! What should I do? I need a lot of help with this one!! Peace, Troyden.
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| Author: | DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 6:01 am ] |
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I don't get it. What's so difficult about this particular girl? Why can't you just call her and say "Let's hangout"? |
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| Author: | Troyden [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 10:11 am ] |
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Maybe it's me, I'm quite nervous and worrying about her reaction. I was trying to stay away from spending time getting girls to follow more personal tasks, but I'm back to it and want a relationship. Is it really that simple? Will 'Let's hang out' really work? It seems too good.. Haha I'll try that but are there any more tips? ANY at all would be much appreciated! Peace, Troyden. |
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| Author: | dimaquality [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 11:20 am ] |
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Just be your awesome self dude BUT Don't make yourself too available - they lose interested. |
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| Author: | QsQMayhem [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 8:39 pm ] |
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Confidence, balls, honest and direct, that's all you need. Asking her to hang out, why not? It's perfect. If she made out with you then i suppose there is some interest coming from her side. I wanna give you some solid advice that i cherish myself, if you want to meet quality people and eventually meet a girl that really suits you, be ready to let go. Dont be afraid to lose a girl cause the longer you prolong, the harder it gets, the more friendzoned you become and the worst it'll be for you self-value. Met this girl friday, she's hot, really hot. She opened me up, we talked, had fun, flirted and i closed her. We texted and got quite intimate, I already prepared for letting go since i dont like to wait forever, there are plenty of beautiful girls out there. Just went honest-direct mode, asked her to chill-out and got the answer i wanted. Best part of all, seeing her tonight aswell (she invited me), we had another intimate talk and i'm sure more will happen. How? By showing balls brother, be yourself, and dont be afraid to lose. The moment you can look a beautiful girl in the eyes while passing tracks, and let her pass without feeling an emotion, is the moment you're doing good. |
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| Author: | DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 2:44 am ] |
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If you already made out with the girl, its already established that you guys like each other. There's no need to come up with a fancy way to get her to hangout at this point. You're already past that, so you should act like you're already past that. The biggest problem is the mentality you're coming from. By you being so concerned whether or not "Lets hangout" will really work, you're showing that you don't realize that IF it doesn't work with this girl, you can go find another girl very easily. And yes, there are smoother ways to ask a girl to hangout, BUT you are mentally backtracking if you think that you need anything more than "Lets hangout." BUT, if you don't feel comfortable just saying "Lets hangout" then you can say something like "I just thought of a great idea of something for us to do. Whats your schedule like the next few days?" Simple and to the point, but also gets her intrigued a little. I don't think you need anything more than that though. GOOD LUCK! |
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| Author: | Troyden [ Sun Nov 04, 2012 12:55 am ] |
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Thanks for all the help guys! I tried the 'Let's hangout.' route and it didn't get a response but I KNOW that I can change that! We are both in the same school (I'm 16 if it helps) and I'll see her around there so does anyone have any advice for that? If I text her again, I also know that will seem needy! Are there any alternatives? Thanks for all the advice so far but I still need a lot of guidance! Thanks, Peace, Troyden. |
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| Author: | DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 4:35 am ] |
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What happened when you asked her to hangout |
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| Author: | Troyden [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 6:50 pm ] |
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I didn't get a reply at all. Though I know that I can change everything, she seemed interested before I asked. All in all I think it was just much too sudden. What would you do in a case like this? Thanks, Peace, Troyden. |
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| Author: | DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 10:53 pm ] |
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Well, its always better to ask a girl to hangout over the phone than through text, so I would call her. I would wait maybe 2 days and then send her a text like: "Hahaaa OMG something totally just reminded me of you." (The only purpose of this is to get her intrigued enough to pick up the phone when you call her) And then when she asks what it is, I would say "Hold on, Im kinda busy right now. I'll call you in a little bit" Then when I call her I just tell her a quick, silly, 2 minute story. I have two that I use a lot. One is about a girl who farted at the gym (Credit: Sinn) another is from my real life and its about a 5 year old kid in my taekwon do class who accidentally peed all over himself in the bathroom. And of course I'll pretend like that story just happened today. (I'm sleazy, I'm OK with it) The reason that you make up for why the story reminded you of her doesn't really matter, because usually she'll be laughing about the girl who farted in the gym or she'll be half laughing and half like "awwwww" for the little boy who peed on himself and then I'll just say "oh yeah and the reason it reminded me of you is because I was talking to her outside the gym/talking to the little kid's dad after class and he/she was talking about xyz and you said you're really into xyz" OR "The girl who farted's name was Jasmine, like you. That's all." It really doesn't even matter at that point. Then I'll just start a regular conversation. "So what are you up to? I did blah blah today." Tease a little. Qualify a little. Then after 20-30 min (the longer the better, but don't feel like you HAVE to have an hour long convo) I'll usually just say. "You're adorable and you seem awesome so far. Whats your schedule like for the next few days? Lets hangout" (The "you're adorable and you seem awesome so far" is more for first time phone conversations. If you've already made out with this girl, I would either leave that out or change it to something like "You're adorable. I like talking to you. What's your schedule like for the next few days?") Honestly, I keep it as simple as that about 8 out 10 times that I call a girl and I have a very high success rate with it, BECAUSE I DO THINGS PROPERLY IN THE FIRST INTERACTION. VERY IMPORTANT. The same way that if you touch a girl enough, the kiss comes naturally and you don't need a kiss close routine as much; if everything leading up to the texting and the phone call is done properly, you don't need as much "phone game." The other 2 out of 10 times that I think I need a little something extra, I might add in the thing I told you above: "I thought of an awesome idea of something for us to do together..." But I rarely do anything more complicated than that. But I'm not a huge fan of doing extra shit to get girls to like me. If she doesn't want to hangout thats fine. I move on the other girls in my phone. Also, if a girl doesn't want to hangout, it probably has more to do with what you did in the initial interaction than how you're asking her to hangout. It usually because of something that you DIDN'T do that you SHOULD have done (like properly qualifying her) or because of something you DID that you SHOULDN"T have done (like act needy or something). So, thats exactly what I would do in a case like this. Call her. Ask her to hangout. If shes no into it, then I would move on. And by the way, when I say "move on" I mean "move on" mentally. Like, move on to other girls, stop worrying about her, but you can still hit her up from time to time and see if maybe she turns around, just don't bank on it. Thats what I mean by move on. I don't necessarily mean never call or text her again. Hopefully that helps to clear things up for how you should think of getting a girl on a date. Why do you think it was much too sudden though? I don't get that. You already madeout with her. I'm willing to bet you didn't qualify properly or didn't qualify her enough. |
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