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| Author: | Incubus69 [ Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When to go for N-CLOSE? |
I have a problem that takes me along time. My name is Stealth-undetectable to my enemies radar and strike at my unexpected potential targets. This is why I nick named myself Stealth. Here's the problem fellow PUA's is that it takes me a while to get a N-CLOSE. It seems kinda like prograstination however I can't explain it. I want it to be perfect! Here's the other problem I'll post later on is that I can COLD-APPROACH a stranger but my OPENER'S are weak-weak enough having them just create FLUFF talk and move on. I work at Walmart and it's cold in ILLINIOS so I don't expect them to stay longer to talk. Is there any other way I can stop them and create a OPEN\CLOSE situation? Write back! |
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| Author: | ace_of_spades [ Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:33 pm ] |
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'The point of the opener is to open' It's key that you work a time constraint into your openers: 'I can only stay a sec, but get this...' And stack into your next routine. The time constraint is crucial though, because it takes the question of 'how long do I have to talk to this guy' right off their mind. Once you've DHVd enough and created attraction it won't matter you said you could only stay a sec. If you're running your material and they're still not hooked, try another time constraint. 'Alright, I REALLY have to get back to work/my friends, but check it out...' And run more A2 material. Before you go for a close, you need to take the girl through A3 - with practice you should be able to compress A3 to 4 minutes, the entire interaction to less than 10. Once she's proven herself interesting to you, you can #close 'Hey, I gotta tell you, your first impression sucked but now that I've gotten to know you a bit you're really interesting! I feel foolish for thinking otherwise. How can we continue this conversation later on?' She should catch your drift and hopefully offer her number to you. Hope this helps, happy sarging. |
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| Author: | Incubus69 [ Fri Jan 18, 2008 4:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Hey thanks for the info |
Hey Ace-thanks for the info; before I got a chance to read your email I N-CLOSED with this SWEETGIRL7 at work. We talked on and off during my shift. I remember giving her a high five and we held hands - IOI! I didn't know I was in though right away until we talked again. After work I bullshitted with this guy for acouple of minutes then started walking out when I saw her. "Hey, uh...excuse me-what do you think your doing just standing there!" She smiled and said she was bored. I used KINO at the appropiate timing then I told her I'll see her later. She told me bye and walked back in the CS desk. I got a drink and I said to myself, "I'm going in for the N-CLOSE!" As I started walking back she popped up again. Confidently and trying to be anxious I asked her if we can chat after work! SHe kept on saying, "What?" So I sarcastically said, "English..." She laughed and I KINO touched her again then repeated myself she didn't know my word chat so I said chit-chat\talk. She agreed and she begun giving me her number before I got my phone out. "Whoa, now settle down there!" I told her as I got my phone out and opened it. "Here, put it in my phone." While she was giving me her number I FLUFFED TALKED asking her when she'll be off and I told her when I'll be off. I knew she wanted a HUG after she gave me her number but I told her I'll see her later. I should've hugged her to show her sexual interest or was there sexual interest already? |
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