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| Author: | rhin0ceros [ Sun Oct 28, 2012 5:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Lied about my age, what to do next? |
Hi guys! Want to report here about last night. I went out with my friends to this half bar half club place. I saw this HB7 dancing with her girl friends (2). So I approached her and we started talki g and dancing. Turns out she is a student started her 3rd year two weeks ago and she is at the age of 23 while I'm 21. I don't know why but i told her I was 23. I #close her. Now there is one major problem: I will be able to see her in only two weeks from now so it's only phone game and sms gme until I see her next time. There is another big problem: how do i tell her i lied to her and I'm actually 21? rhin0 |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 2:02 am ] |
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I doubt she will care much unless you make it an issue |
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| Author: | dominic_l [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 6:38 am ] |
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i promise it wont make a difference. you probably worried that shell freak out because you lied to her but you bearly know each other. its not like your in a relationship yet so you dont really owe her anything.honestly is good but shell probably let all that slide |
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| Author: | textanova [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 6:46 am ] |
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I wouldn't worry about it. Not a big difference anyway. Don't even bring it up unless you're ready to marry her. |
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| Author: | rhin0ceros [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 11:19 pm ] |
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ReGuys thanks for the replys! I actually managed to get the girl calling me today wich means lots of attraction. We talked for about an hour on the phone until I had to go. I'm still playing it cool about the age and still don't know when to tell her and how. This is my biggest concern right now. I feel like the longer I wait the bigger the lie gets and it's eating me from the inside. I'm trying to think of a way to tell her and disqualify myself at the same time. I believe it's the right way to do it. Remember its only phone game and text game untill next Thursday. Thanks rhin0 |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 3:43 pm ] |
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Quote: I feel like the longer I wait the bigger the lie gets
That makes sense, but from my personal experience the opposite is actually true. As fas as your burning desire for moral absolution and honesty than you may have to spill the beans lest you consume your organs. Just wait till she brings your age up then tell her the truth in a casual way like you thought she already knew; just be nonchalant and laugh about it. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 4:07 pm ] |
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I wouldn't bring it up or even acknowledge that you lied about it initially, even if she brings it up. I would pretend like I thought I told her 21, and then make her feel like she was mistaken if she says "I thought you said you were 23." You might be able to convince her that she misheard you. Or maybe say "I told you I was just bullshitting that night and that I was actually 21. Don't you remember that?" Here's what you don't want to do: Admit to being a liar. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 8:08 pm ] |
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Whichever method of plausible deniability or ambiguous acceptance is reasonable. The common point is dont make a big deal about it lest she makes it a shit test and uses it against you. The way you are setting it up its going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy an blow up in your face. |
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